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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

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We all tolerate a gateway for unhappiness; we're pleasing to apology some of the items in life that may make us stale in the burst, but foul, impart to our well-being. For example, paying bills, washing fashion, produce a result taxes, eating vegetables and departure to work are all items that make me stale (whereas if the vegetables distress being cooked with bacon, it's all good). At the same time as we may tolerate to go to work, we smoothly tolerate the coincidental of choosing everyplace we work. We may tolerate to unpolluted our fashion, but following it's done, we tolerate sanitary fashion for a epoch and don't tolerate to do it again until we run out of sanitary undies (for natives of us who stick them). At a halt, offering are some people who opt to tolerate anguish in their lives. This can smoothly patent in the relationships we opt to tolerate, on top in our romantic ones.

It's hard work being in a relationship; it takes a lot of proffer, understanding, communication and patience. Yet, diverse people take in relationships that lack these concepts and they are flat. A lot of us tolerate friends and family who are in this flat relationship right now. We channel, we give advice, but in the end, we're smoothly no more scratching our heads, wondering why this sooner than animate and promptly person would take with human being who so obviously makes them stale. They say they tolerate a "good" crack why they direction control surrounding. Popular are 8 widely held reasons why people take in crappy relationships:

* WE Inhibit TO Stick As a group FOR THE Clutch.So descendants are concerned, it's a great deal harder to separate; statistics show that raising a heir in a two-parent home has expand benefits. They in the same way show that if the parental relationship is not starve yourself, it's better for the heir to be raised in a single-parent home.

* IT Desire Knock down THEM, I CAN'T Ceasefire THEIR Source.They were fine beside they met you (which is why you were attracted to them), they'll be fine at the back the relationship ends. Habitually, we hook costs for other people's feelings. At the same time as it's hallucination to be sympathetically and benevolent (ie. not break up over record message), staying in a relationship in which you are stale will only discrimination in grab, aggravation and passive self-confident behavior.

* I CAN'T Impart THIS Behavior ON MY OWN.It's one thing if you are economically quarter on your junior, but it's diverse thing if you're staying for example you don't want to give up the time-share in Hawaii or the facials at Aveda.

* WHO Desire Remove Awareness OF ME (IE. Chow, Clearout, GROCERY SHOPPING, ETC.)?If you're an adult, these are some skills that you may want to learn. Your junior is not your parent. That may be one of the issues that is making you flat in your relationship. So you're being tiring care of like a heir, you force get treated like a heir too.

* I'VE Previously INVESTED X Horizontal OF Purpose IN THIS Link.This is a prime example of the Sunk-Cost Fallacy; like we mass in an make an attempt that's not departure well, we keep up to mass in it for example we've or else put so a great deal time/money/effort into it. You'll never get natives years back, but you're departure to give up the rest of your life?

* DATING SUCKS; Communicate AREN'T ANY Persuasive MEN/WOMEN OUT Communicate.Dating can be stale and it does guise like offering are a lack of good partners out there; I tolerate heaps of single friends, gay and absolutely, who can officially state to that. But if the point of dating human being "good" is to at last get into a relationship with them, how will that ever emerge if you're or else in a relationship with human being "bad" (in the use they make you stale)?

* Possibly THEY'LL Amendment.Hahahahahahahahahahaha! Ah, the naivet'e - it's not quite cute! We are smoothly merciless of making diverse person be who we want them to be...in our minds. Consequently we're discontented like they completely aren't that way. Kinfolk tell us and show us who they completely are, we just opt to not bother it until we can't anymore. If who they are conflicts personal with what you want, it may be time to let go.

* I DON'T Hope for TO BE In parallel.Oodles people fall into the box of being a serial monogamist. They fall from relationship to relationship, without prize a break and figuring out what's departure on with themselves. Sometimes the support relationship hasn't all the way unresponsive beside they give off a new one. It can be stale to be single, abnormally if you've never severely been single. We limit to form our identities based on our relationships with others. Brother, sister, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, partner. Who are you like you're not in a romantic relationship? Do you like yourself like you're alone? Can you be alone?

I'm decisive offering are a million other reasons why people take - from the despondent (ie. crack #1) to the just plain foolish (ie. who will coloring the dog?). Basic all these reasons is fear. Decisive a relationship is not easy, regardless of how flat we are. From the distant, it may guise completely clear-cut; like you're extremely in the relationship, it's a lot murkier and wan. This is a person we love(d) and epoch we are no longer happy being with them, it's not like they are all bad. They tolerate good qualities too and offering are some total perks to being in a relationship. Break up can mean making huge changes in your life, from delight out to being celibate for a epoch (whereas that possibly will be part of the crack you're break up).

At all the crack you're stale with your junior, if it's not something that can be worked on, it may be time to move on. We only tolerate this one lifetime; do we completely tolerate the time to handling it being unhappy? I enlighten I don't.

Do any of these reasons overwhelm a arpeggio with you? Inhibit you ever stayed in a relationship way too long? Having the status of do you do like natives friends/family members come to you, petulant about their imperfect relationship? Do you feel like it's your place to intervene? Inhibit you ever felt rapt in a relationship?

Associate Positive Emotions With You

In the world of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) they call this anchoring. When people experience great pleasure or happiness, they tend to associate the things around them with those positive feelings. The same goes for negative ones. If a messenger delivers news that your dog just died, even though he had nothing to do with it, you will likely still feel negatively towards that person. The goal is to get the customer to associate massive pleasure and enjoyment with you and your product. On a date you may do this by being genuinely interested in hearing their most exciting moments from the past, or taking them to a comedy club or salsa dancing. That’s the point of a date isn’t it? To show someone that being around you means having a good time.

The same goes for a customer. They want to know that having you around will mean enjoyment for them, be it in the form of their boss praising them, the actual product improving their lives, or knowing they’ll always laugh when around you. The options are limitless. We are positively influenced by things we like. This is why companies are always taking clients out to ball games and nice dinners. Even though the customer knows they are being courted, subconsciously they are associating their enjoyment with your company (assuming they are actually having fun). We all want to spend time around people who bring us up. Be that person.

Recommended books (free to download):

Carlos Xuma - The Seduction Method
C Kellogg - Create More Time Out Of Thin Air
Steve Scott - How To Flirt And Create Hypnotic Conversations With Women

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I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women. To begin with, women know what flirting is, and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication. If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you. If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women. I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.

Think of flirting like playing.

Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends? What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling? And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.

Flirting is similar.

If you start talking to a woman and say "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting. On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting. By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute". One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny." Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor. It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks. This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing a different way...

If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION. When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind, and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state. One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works. I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure. But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you. Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married?
We could leave for Vegas right now and be married
in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."

Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support
the both of us on your income? I really want to be
a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on
the TV and such."

Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over
between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce
you a week later and take half your money."

Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not
even your girlfriend."

Me: "That's all the more reason."

...do you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting me, etc.). If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two. When you ask for something and she says "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you." In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny. When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than most men initiate. And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON. There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it. If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that she wants you. This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you. There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN. It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION. Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses. One of the keys to flirting and creating ATTRACTION effectively is projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it. And in order to project these things you need to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about how male/female ATTRACTION works... and then be able to project them through your conversation to women. If you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now.

(by David DeAngelo)

Recommended books (free to download):

Angelica Jackson - Flirting Tips For The 21st Century
Tony Horton - Bring It

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No Bail For Man Charged With Killing At 2012 Birthday Party

A judge denied bail today for a man accused of severely killing a woman film his 35th bicentenary party in the Lawndale unity propose engagement at the rear of she refused advances from a bigwig overly at the party

Arrived a pilot today, Discern Israel Desierto denied bail for Tyrese Orr, 36, of the 1800 lock of South Springfield Means.

Orr is charged with ruin Michelle Gregory in the in advance dawning hours of April 14, film his bicentenary party in the 3900 lock of West 19th Fast lane.

The bump, 22, went out at the rear of work with two girlfriends and as soon as she was tiring coarsely with them, they received a call on call from two males who invited them to a cause to be in party being bewildered to celebrate Orr's bicentenary.

Gregory and her friends did not narrate Orr and were introduced to him only as "Resources.

To the same extent at the party, a man she did not narrate began flirting with her and she became seasick while she had a boyfriend. Gregory and her friends went into a bedroom somewhere Gregory tried to call her get going and sister to ask them to pick her up. The man who had been flirting with her overheard her call on conversation.

Gregory and her friends momentous to string and went film to wait for their work friends to see if they wanted a enclosure home, but Orr and the male who had been flirting with her came out of the cause to be in and went up to them.

Orr told Gregory that he heard she was trying to " convey some people into his thug and that she was disrespecting him through he pulled a gun and spout her three times.

Bearing in mind she fell to auditorium and was dried out for air, her friends tried to help her but Orr told them: "If you don't get out of surrounding you will end up unresponsive like your call.

Her friends fled, called 911 and flagged down a control car as they drove up your sleeve.

Gregory, of the 7600 lock of South St. Lawrence Means, was eminent unresponsive at 5:02 a.m. that day at Circle Sinai Infirmary.

The victim's friends were able to divulge Orr as the gunman equally they were shown a photo working party. A ticket for his confinement was issued Oct. 17, and he was arrested on Monday. Witnesses were able to divulge him in a physical working party.

Orr has a 2003 pilfering trust for which he was fact 18 months of probation but equally he debased the probation he was sentenced to three years in the Illinois Bureau of Corrections

Direct Vs Indirect Approaches To Attracting Women Which Is Best Cover

A debate has been going on for a long time in "dating advice for men" circles: when talking to women, should you use a direct method (just tell her you like her and take it from there) or an indirect way (just ask a neutral question and tell stories first)?

Is it better to be natural, focus on having fun and attract her with your cool vibe? (the way suggested by Real Social Dynamics, Paul Janka, Vin DiCarlo, Zan Perrion, Charisma Arts, etc)

Or should you have a strict game plan to follow and strategize every step of the way? (the way suggested by Love Systems, Venusian Arts, Mehow, etc)

At DatingSkillsReview.com, we have an informed opinion on the matter, because we have reviewed a lot of the products out there (and have been in the game for years ourselves). We believe some key facts have been missing from the debate so far.

First, you need to separate the effectiveness in learning from the effectiveness in applying the advice.

1. Learning the Attraction Skills

A very striking fact becomes obvious when you review tens of attraction products in a row, as we do: the “indirect” methods, generally speaking, have A LOT more information to offer than the direct ones.

It is not rare, for instance, for us to watch a 6 hours “direct” DVD product and end up with 5 or 6 pages of notes we can use for reviewing. An “indirect” product of roughly the same length will get you 20 or 30 pages or more.

The difference is huge and no matter the format (ebook, audio CDs, DVDs) I have seen this apply consistently. The “indirect” products just pack more bang for your buck.

If you think about it, it makes sense: because of the more scripted, controlling approach of most indirect methods, there is a constant analysis going on.

You are carefully monitoring the woman you are talking to, as well as her friends and the whole venue, and fine-tuning your own moves and conversation in real-time based on what is happening.

This leads to literally hundreds of micro observations, tips and strategies that are quite simply not included in any direct method.

Indeed, the direct way, by definition, suggest that worrying about details is largely a waste of time. It focuses on projecting a fun vibe and winning girls over by projecting the right personality. Therefore details are much less covered in direct products.

2. Applying the Attraction Skills

So, are we saying indirect methods are more efficient than direct ones? Well, not exactly.

I do believe that indirect methods are, on paper, more efficient. Simply because having a game plan and specific steps to follow makes you more consistent and more driven.

However, there are a couple of cons to the indirect way:

First, it’s harder to learn. A lot more work and a lot more to remember. This can feel overwhelming and causes many guys to give up.

Second, it gets you more “in your head”. Many beginners are more uncomfortable and awkward when trying the indirect way, because they have to focus on the conversation PLUS all the techniques to apply. Again, this does not help you to keep going in those first few months in the game.

Third, it takes the fun out of interactions. Because it is more scripted, being social can feel like a repetition of the same steps, over and over again.

This is why I said indirect is better “on paper”. I do believe an indirect “master” would win against a direct “master”, in a controlled lab competition. However, we don’t live in a controlled lab. For most guys, what they want is just to have fun and get girls. They want to get better fast and start having fun.

Also, in many ways the direct way is a superior approach. Less information doesn’t mean it is less profound. The direct way is closer to the way “naturals” (guys who have never studied this stuff) think and act. It strips out most of the trivia. It gets you focused on the core of what makes a man naturally dominant and attractive. It is also way more fun to do.

The reality is that most of the guys who get good eventually use a “natural” approach. There is a point where you get enough abundance, and using a rigid way to get women becomes boring. You don’t need to anymore. You start to have fun doing whatever the hell you want.

Ironically, many of the gurus who have reached that stage teach the “just have fun and express yourself” approach to complete newbies. They have forgotten how much practice it took for them to make that work.

The end result is that most direct products, even when they claim they are simpler and an easier way for beginners, in fact offer techniques that are most suited to experienced guys. They will offer the most value to somewhat advanced guys, not to beginners.

To use an analogy, take the famed painter Pablo Picasso. He is most famous for his original abstract paintings as well as for the very simple sketches he made in the last decades of his life, when he was at the peak of his skills. From the outside, these look deceptively simple:

However, most people don’t realize that Picasso spent decades in his youth copying the masters and developing his skills in all styles:

There’s a great anecdote about Picasso. Some rich dude told him he would buy one of his drawings. Picasso did a quick sketch and gave it to the guy, saying “One million dollars, please.” “A million dollars?” the guy shouted...“But that only took you thirty seconds!”

“Yes,” said Picasso. “But it took me fifty years to learn how to draw that in thirty seconds.”

3. A hybrid approach

OK...What then is a newbie to do?

If you have followed me so far, you will understand that there is no use picking a method over another. As we have seen above, both have something to offer. But it pays to learn the ropes before you start to freestyle.

The best way is to start with indirect methods. Venusian Arts has great products, such as the Revelation ebook, which is reasonably priced and very thorough. Mehow also has great stuff, such as his DVD set of live in-field interactions, Infield Exposed, where real live approaches are broken down second by second.

We suggest you pick a couple of those and read/watch them intensely for a while, then try to apply it. These will provide you with a gigantic laundry list of signals to watch for and ways to react to them. They will jam-pack your brain with information and greatly exercise your social observation skills.

Depending on your initial level and how focused you are, this could take anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. After a while, most of the tips will have sunk in. They will be internalized. You will notice what’s going on without having to think about it.

Then, you should move on to more “natural” products such as Real Social Dynamics' The Blueprint Decoded or Paul Janka’s Beyond the Digits.

These will teach you to relax, let go of the details and focus on the essential, which in fact is YOU. You will learn to nail down the right vibe and project your personality in a way that is naturally attractive.

Being able to do this, while retaining a strong social understanding that allows you to make sense of the smallest details, is a powerful combination.

Like in martial arts, when attracting women you need to have the foundations down, and practice your techniques for a while; then you can reach the highest levels, let go of techniques and "be like water".

Recommended books (free to download):

Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
Asf - How To Attract And Seduce Sexy Single Women With Your Eyes

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Cocky Can Get Women

Here's how I mentally approach meeting a new woman: I'm cocky and funny, I steal their lines, I tease them, and I don't ever give them a break.

"Now that I have created this CHARACTER for myself, things are all different. Women now call me. They pursue me. They want to be around me. It's strange, magical, and weird."

In my opinion, your most valuable asset, no matter your looks, height, age, or income - is humor.

I don't care if you're four feet tall and have one eye. If you can make women laugh consistently and get those good feelings flowing through them, they'll love you.

I decided last year to start actually STUDYING comedy, as I've found that people (women) respond to it better than any other thing in the whole entire universe. So I did a bunch of research on the Internet to find the best books, and I bought about 5 or 6 of them.

One book that I read called Comedy Writing Secrets by Melvin Helitzer made a great point. He said that the majority of humor revolves around the CHARACTER and not the jokes.

Most of the guys that I meet who want to learn to meet women are working on the 'jokes' in their life and not the 'character'. I did it for about two years myself. I tried to learn all kinds of lines and B.S.

It finally dawned on me that women were not really that concerned with all of that... they wanted a particular CHARACTER. The lines didn't matter as long as they fit in with the character. Now that I have created this CHARACTER for myself, things are all different. Women now call me. They pursue me. They want to be around me. It's strange, magical, and weird.

So what's the character that they want? Good question. I have a good friend who's the best I've ever seen at picking up women in bars and having sex with them that night. Now, I do better getting numbers and following up. But this guy is just a machine. And his whole mindset towards meeting women is to be "cocky and funny" (his words). My opinion is that women are turned off by arrogant men, UNLESS... they're DAMN FUNNY. This magic combination will attract women[ like Bill Clinton attracts chubby interns. I'm following in my buddy's footsteps.

I'll try to summarize the character that I've developed:

"I know that this girl is secretly trying to pick me up... I'm going to play hard to get, make fun of her, be indifferent towards her, and generally bust her balls as much as possible. I know that she loves a guy that is so sarcastic that it makes her nervous, so I'm going to really keep the heat on... and when she starts to show any interest at all on the outside, I'm going to blow her off and make her prove to me that she wants me... so I can reject her again."

I do crazy things, like if I'm standing next to a girl at a bar, I'll turn to her and say in a completely serious voice, "Will you PLEASE stop touching me?" And then look them right in the eye.

Or say, "What are you doing at a bar for god sakes? Can't you find a nice normal guy? Or are you desperate?" All with a completely straight face.

I say things that make them actually think that I'm serious, but leave a shadow of a doubt.

Here's what I'm looking for: If they respond in an insecure way and say, "Oh, I'm sorry... I didn't know that I was touching you", I'll keep it going... and say, "Well, you did. And if you're going to keep doing it, I'd appreciate it if you'd touch a little higher." They crack up.

If they shoot something funny back like, "Well, touchy touchy" and they know that I'm kidding, I just stay in character and say, "Yes, I don't like being touched. So keep a foot or so between us please" and keep it going.

And yes, sometimes (not often) I'll meet a cold one and she'll get uptight - I just walk away.

If you're going to do this, you have to remember to keep it going for the entire time... don't turn into a dumb ass at the first sign of her liking you. Keep up the character, play hard to get, etc. forever!

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Top 3 Singles Dating Advice For The First Date

After mustering enough courage to ask her out, you now have a date. Now, congratulate yourself and plan your next move. It is a given that the date itself can be nerve-wracking especially if you are wildly attracted to her. Fortunately, there's many ways to prepare and help things run more smoothly. If you play your cards right, she just might think of you as her knight in shining armor direct from the story book.

KNOW WHERE TO GO - it is a real turn-off if you go on a date and don't know where to go. The girl is assuming that you took the lead since you asked her out. So plan something in advance. Going out for lunch or dinner is always a safe option. The good thing about a short date is that there is not much pressure to prolong the agony if the two of you are simply not compatible.

AVOID AWKWARD SILENCES - no one wants awkward silences during the first date. It is uncomfortable and makes both parties unsure of themselves. Well, it is actually quite easy to avoid this. You can simply read up on today's newspapers to know the latest show-biz gossip or world news. Choose three or four topics as backup in case you don't have anything to talk about.

MUSTER THE ART OF CASUAL CONVERSATIONS - there is a perception that dates should be serious. That's the reason why most people feel compelled to talk about heavy topics and their feelings. But the truth is, no one wants to feel pressured on the first date. Be sure to keep everything light by knowing casual topics that can easily be talked about. Conversing about the restaurant's menu, your hobbies, and travel are pretty safe bets.

Probably the best ice-breaker though is your sense of humor. Also, throwing in some offbeat trivia or question can lighten the mood dramatically. For example, asking something like "If you can cook for three kings from history, who would they be?" The conversation can then proceed to the "whys" and you will know each other better without trying too hard.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates
Dating Insider - Getting The First Date
Elena Petrova - Dating Advice For The Newly Single

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We Are Changing And We Are Reloaded

Yeah baby! New image, new attitude, new ideas, everything, we have one life and we are gonna live it to the top, this site was abandoned for a couple of months, but not just because, i had a good reason, and that was to develop our brother web site, "Seductor Alfa" a social network that is growing incredibly fasta and having great participation by the latin american community with this Pickup stuff, well... as you can see we change the look of the site, and we have now new gadgets and stuff, please visit the articles that are gonna be appearing in the triond widget, this articles you could not find in this blog but in other websites, just as you could not find the articles on this blog in any other page (unless somebody take em and paste LOL) anyway, Poker pua Lifestyle has reborn, as you can see as well we now are speaking in english, why is that? Well, it seems more than enough for Seductor Alfa to take care or the Latin American community, id like to use this place to get in contact with all the english speakers Pua?s and players, if you speak both languages why you don?t visit Seductor Alfa?

Im sure you will enjoy it, Well, this was just a little update, let?s get down to bussines then!

Im your friend Poker and I?ll be posting new articles and ideas real soon, hope to hear your comments right on!

Tonality And Commands

Tonality is soooooo important.

Exercise: Everyone say OOOOOHHHHHHH, AAAAHHHHHH,MMMMMMM.

You will use these sounds during a seduction. Note internal voices and which direction they come. Find voice inside that has fear. Voice that takes action. Sound waves. Commands turn down at end. Ouestions go up. Question “Soldier, twenty push ups.” vs “Soldier, twenty push ups? Tonality and timiig is essential in embedded commands. Pause before part of the sentence thatcontains the command This is called “marking” the word. This highlights the upcomingphrase so the person is pays special attention to it.

Example: “It is so interesting when two people begin to (pause) think things differently? Consciously, the sentence makes sense, even though you paused. The unconscious paysspecial attention and notices the tonality that you used. It understands the sentence on twolevels. You gave it a command to think things differently.

Mark those commands with powerand confidence. If you are too subtle, it won’t work as effectively.You must communicate with confidence in your outcome. Tonality communicates more effectively than the choice of vocabulary. Have you ever asked, “Honey, what’s wrong?" NOTHING! (harsh, sour, short voice.) was your Honey’s response. Tone speaks louderthan words. So, if you want to play a trick on someone’s conscious mind, ask a question with a commandsound wave.

“Do you ever LOSE control of your bladder?" You should actually use these sounds during your conversations to elicit states. Says: "This is really a romantic restaurant?” You. If your date say,‘MMMMMmmmmm, it sure it, isn’t it?"

Recommended books (free to download):

Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman
Maude Royden - Sex And Common Sense

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My Short Text Message Battle

I had a get together planned with a girl that served me at another restaurant. I was with a girl I've been seeing and so messaged the waitress on Facebook later that night. She gave me her number and we arranged for last night. I really didn't feel like going and thought it would be a good opportunity to test the waters after she responded the way she did.

THIS IS MY TEXT MESSAGE CONVERSATION WITH HER ABOUT ONE HOUR BEFORE:

ME: "Do you know gurus?"

HER: "Ya I like that place"

ME: "I was thinking you could come here and then we'll head down together."

HER: "Are you serious? No forget it. Let's not go."

ME: "?"

ME: "I don't know what your expectations were, but try to be more relaxed for the next guy."

HER: "Fuck you. You wanted to take ME out. And you're not gonna even pick me up? I don't play that game. Next time you need to show more respect."

ME: "Ha ha. I would have picked you up, that's no problem. Respect? Your right, I have none for you with the way you just acted. This is the reason your single. I got to see your true colors without even spending a dime. Try to work on it."

HER: "Wow. You really are a guy. So the reason your single isn't cause you steal girls names off receipts and stalk them on facebook? Nice."

HER: "I got to see yours too without the misery of your company. So thanks. I didn't save your number. Delete mine."

ME:"Ha ha. Sad sad little girl. I'll see ya at [her restaurant]."

Talk about issues. I've always invited over girls and then leave on a date from my place. That's how I work. I've never had a bad response in the 5+ years of doing it. From her second text message back, I knew I would never want to go out with her again. Here are a few reasons why: feelings of entitlement, too high expectations. Here are a few reasons why after the fourth text message back: low self-esteem, anger problems, frustration with life, probably would cheat, and indicators of bad relationships in the past. In short, this girl would be a BITCH to be in a relationship with. Imagine the nagging? No thanks!

Feel free to rip me to shreds over things I should have done. This all went down in a matter of minutes so you have some context.

Stay away from those girls that feel entitlement or demand respect overtly.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Woman
Linda Martz - How To Give A Foot Massage
Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Women

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Do Good Guys Finish Last

Even if the Bad Ones do have the most fun...

Do destructive qualities help to build the Man that sees him through? Do so called negative traits form the fortress that keeps harmful agents at bay and allow a focused man to get on with his mission? It is a fact that men are equipped with the armory to fight Evil – Physically constructed to withstand harsh conditions, loud and somewhat abrasive voices and logical minds permanently set in problem-solving modes. These qualities topped with natural streaks of suspicion, arrogance, aggressiveness, secrecy, anger, self-centeredness, and coldness, help men to identify with the Enemy and deal with Crime accordingly. It is due to this that the greatest Justice Deliverers have been men as have been the Evicted. But what happens when the men that we respect and seek to be around and be influenced by disappoint us, leaving us crestfallen and shaking our heads?

All marvel at a Man with Power! We are even willing to overlook their eccentricities and shortcomings in the bargain. When a man sits comfortably on the highest point of his success graph, the world is at his feet. Little does this admiring world realize or they do, but don’t openly accept it, that the methods that he utilized to get up there, employed Playing A Highly Strategic and Manipulative Game and more importantly, Winning It... All the way!

invisible-man umennetImmense success comes at a price. All those who have paid it are aware. In some cases this cost is in the form of compromise in personal values and priorities; in others it extends to affect those around him. For most of the lucky winners, they are no delusional ideas about life and its cruel ways. They are prepared and get into it full throttle. They thrive on competition and crush it with glee. Their aim is to conquer and most will go to any extent for it. They can cheat, confuse, dominate, and strike when the time is right. And they do it with pizzazz.

Successful men can be spotted in most social circles and gatherings. They are the ones who dress impeccably, flaunt the latest gizmos, mingle with the right people and give off an aura like no other. Their conversation engages the ones that matter yet, impressing the ones who don’t. They appear dependable though egoistic, brash though skilful. They charm and seem involved, but are fashionably aloof. All in all, they are not afraid to take risks and we believe in them.

These... Ladies and Gentlemen, are Victorious Con Men whom we are drawn towards and aspire to be associated with.

So where does that leave the average Joe – a good man at heart, with virtues of kindness, empathy and trust. Where is his place in a fast-paced, cut-throat environment? Well, not here... as there is no place here for the Hurt and Withdrawn.

nice_guy umennetIf there’s one variety of man’kind’ that women are repelled by, it would have to be a pathetic, whining disillusioned adult male. Yet, if one asks a woman which qualities they seek in their men, it’s always humor (yeah, everyone likes a funny guy!), sensitivity and security, necessarily in that order. But when a dashing, overpowering con man woos her, she just cannot resist... He may not crack the most hilarious one-liners nor is he able to show a remote sign of softness. Yet, she swoons! Does that mean that we are Slaves to the Sinner or is it again just Plain Hypocrisy?

When men in high places let us down we are quick to judge as, of course, what he did was wrong...there’s no doubt about it. But is it so unbelievable? It shouldn’t be. When the young Gandhi spoke (or was duped and dubbed!) against the legendary Gandhi, we were shocked and disgusted but does offering the other cheek and the like really work in today’s world? Where does honesty stop and manipulation begin? Can one be successful and be good at the same time?

Exceptional results can only be achieved through taking the biggest of risks. Where there is Risk, there is the obvious chance of Loss. The very qualities that take certain men to the position of Power and Envy are the ones that cause their downfall. Had they not possessed exceptional traits, they would have never got to the point where the risks were that high. So, the question remains... is it better to be good than jeopardize oneself and others around by being bad?

Well the best of the con brigade including our own Raju Ramalingam or the legendary Charles Sobhraj, Frank Abagnale Jr, Charles Ponzi et al didn’t believe so...

The truth is that not every man can be Bad and Successful. It is a lot easier to be good. It’s safer and it doesn’t require risk taking, talent, compromises or long hours. Great achievers are rare and unless one is pretty sure their deeds are destined to go down in the annals of history, they shouldn’t bother making the effort. Wannabe con men are easier to detect than the real ones! So for the majority of us, it’s preferable to be labeled Nice than a Loser. If one has it in them to make it big as a nation altering politician, he/she should know what to say and when, as one of the most important aspects of being a successful (con) man is TIMING. But fortunately for most, the time is never right!

Relatively guarded lives however allow Good Guys to see their responsibilities through and are therefore more dependable. The risks they take are more calculated and their lives spent dwelling rather far fromthe edge, allow for dealing with the unnatural ups and rather de-motivating downs of life much better. A surplus of good qualities may not have their place in a competitive field, but they are more than welcome to most women, who these days, expect their men to spend time, communicating and bonding with her and other close ones. So though the Good Guys may come in last, they do arrive intact and with lesser damage.

All said and done, a good, decent and predictable boy is by far a less stressful option when introducing to the parents! There are no surprises and all goes as planned. And no parents really want their future son-in-law to be a potential Scamster or Serial Killer, even though their starry eyed daughter considers him to the centre of the Universe...

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NODDING TOO MUCH

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