Traveling As A Couple Dangers

A weekend getaway? Tickets for two to Cancun? New Year's Eve in New York? Maybe even backpacking through Europe for the young and trust-funded?

Sounds great doesn't it? Wait - how long have you been dating? Traveling as a couple isn't something you want to rush into; are you ready to be spending lots and lots of time together, without respite for days on end? This can be a make or break situation, so be sure you're ready to take the risk when traveling as a couple.

When you're traveling as a couple, you'll be seeing a side of her you haven't before. At home, you may spend hours or even days together on a regular basis, but on vacation there won't be anywhere to hide if she's in a bad mood. You'll have to deal with it. All of the little things that you can shrug off because it's for a short while will be totally unavoidable, and you'll be finding out whether or not you can stand them.

TRAVELING AS A COUPLE DANGER #1

YOUR STRESS LEVELS ESCALATE

When you don't know the language, aren't familiar with the food (and what in the name of God is a bidet?), the little stresses can add up. You are going to be the only familiar face your girl will be seeing and vice versa.

You will be the one she complains to about the food. You'll be the one she wants to drag to all the boutique shops. You'll be the one she snarks to about the travel accommodations. Are you ready to see your lady love in a 3-day bitch fit?

BEST CASE SCENARIO: You talk out problems as they arise, and try to head off any you can foresee. The vacation is enjoyable for you both.

WORST CASE SCENARIO: You fight all the time, realize you can't stand each other and break things off soon after returning home.

TRAVELING AS A COUPLE DANGER #2

YOURE STUCK WITH HER

You're going to be with your sweetie pretty much 24/7 for the length of your vacation, and sharing a hotel room means sharing a bathroom, probably a teeny tiny little bathroom with insufficient mirror space.

If you're on any kind of budget at all, chances are you've decided to minimize expenditure on your accommodation. And why not? You're so in love that it'll be awesome to spend 14 nights sharing a single bed.

BEST CASE SCENARIO: You actually enjoy all the up close and personal time you'll be getting with your girl. You even find her snoring and hogging the bathroom cute.

WORST CASE SCENARIO: You find out that the occasional post-coital snuggle isn't the same as getting swatted in the face with her errant arm every 2 hours. And then spending 12 hours with her on a tour bus.

TRAVELING AS A COUPLE DANGER #3

YOU MIGHT GO BROKE

If you're going on vacation, you've probably got a budget. So does your lady. Are they the same? Not likely. If one of you has a larger travel budget than the other, a few things can happen. You'll feel limited by them, they'll feel you're missing out, they'll be jealous of your extra options, you'll feel obligated to pay their way - there are so many ways unbalanced finances can lead to trouble on vacation.

This can mostly be avoided by having an honest discussion about what you want to do, where you'll stay, and what you'll be able to spend before you leave.

BEST CASE SCENARIO: You make a travel plan based on what you can both realistically afford, and have a great time bargain hunting. A low budget can really help you get to know an area by forcing you to seek out restaurants and hotels off the beaten track. And the exercise you'll get from walking around instead of cabbing it won't hurt!

WORST CASE SCENARIO: One or both of you will feel like they're missing out on fun they could be having. If you've got the extra cash, you might be tempted to just start paying for the extras which can make your girlfriend feel guilty and uncomfortable. Added to the stress of being together all the time, this could lead to a very unpleasant money fight.

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Motives Of Women

I think that it's important to look at the differences between men and women from an objective perspective.

Remember that just about every thought and behavior that a woman has, no matter how little sense it may make to you, has some positive intention behind it.

"I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying to find women who will give them sex, and women are usually trying to find men who will give them loyalty and commitment."

Drama is often to get attention. Jealousy is often a way of protecting a relationship. Games are often used to make sure that a man is serious and willing to invest energy.

So as you work to become more successful with women, remember not to take things personally. Don't get discouraged if you encounter games, drama, and things that you don't understand. It's all part of the game.

I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying to find women who will give them sex, and women are usually trying to find men who will give them loyalty and commitment. This has evolved over many millions of years, and these goals contain an obvious conflict of interest.

So just realize this conflict exists, and as you learn, remember to take it into consideration.

And, of course, don't take any of it personally. Men have been dealing with all of these same issues for a long, long time.

David DeAngelo is the author of “Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.

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Girlfriend Seduced A Stripper

GIRLFRIEND DID A STRIPPER

I found out my girlfriend went to a bachelorette party recently and ended up fondling a male stripper and licking syrup off his body. When I confronted her, she said it was all in good fun and I shouldn't think any of it.

However, if I go to a strip joint with the boys, she loses her freakin' mind.

Am I crazy for being pissed or is there an actual difference?

ROY

No, Roy, there is no difference. Actually, men aren't usually allowed to touch strippers, so yeah, there is a difference. It sounds to me like your girlfriend is trying to get away with cheating.

Ask yourself this: Would she have done something like that in front of you? That is the barometer by which you must measure your conduct. If it's something you would not do in front of your significant other, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.

Your girlfriend is really playing up the double standard. Licking anything off another man is not cool and if you want to forgive her for it, more power to you. But if she's going to lecture you on going to strip joint while she has some syrup on her lip, then what does that make her.

I strongly suggest that you tell her what you do at strip joints if and when you go, or even take her with you so that she can understand what really goes on there. Maybe then she'll stop licking foodstuff off strangers.

"THREESOME DANGER

I recently had a threesome with my girlfriend and another woman whom I had never met, and it was amazing. Now my girlfriend wants to have another threesome but with my best friend.

The thing is, my best friend sort of crushes on my girl and she knows it. Should I still go for it despite this, or do I have a right to worry?

STEVE

Worry you should, Steve. Your friend is hot for your girlfriend and there's a good chance she's well aware of it. The fear is that if sex between them is great, they might go for it again, when you're not around.

It's great that you enjoyed a threesome with another woman and it didn't cause any awkwardness, but this woman is someone you didn't know. If she's keen on having a an MFM threesome, involved, find someone she doesn't know.

Getting your best friend involved will inevitably lead to complications afterwards.

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Prenuptial Agreements Why Men Want One

Prenuptial agreements are becoming more and more commonplace among couples, and with good reason.

Over half of marriages end in divorce and when they do, it seems that the women are getting the long end of the stick, along with the house, the kids, the car, alimony, and his testicles.

The justice system has yet to catch up to what is going on in marriages and divorces today, and the only way men can protect themselves, it seems, is via prenuptial agreements. It's that, or just chucking the whole marriage thing altogether.

ASKING FOR A DIVORCE

Some couples have argued that signing prenuptial agreements is like planning for a divorce, but what a lot of us don't realize is that when love turns to hate, the person you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with ends up becoming someone you barely know.

Prenuptial agreements are contracts, much like marriage contracts, except that they separate the assets that each party is coming into the union with.

But it doesn't end there; prenuptial agreements can contain anything from cheating clauses to weight gain deals. The point of prenuptial agreements is to prevent further damage once the damage has already been done.

KEEPING MARRIAGE SACRED

If you've ever lived in Los Angeles, you'd know that women seeking men based solely on their income is all too common. Suffice to say that not all parts of the world have women like this, but there are some almost everywhere men go.

These women plan to marry for money and prenuptial agreements become that "water that melts the witch away." The last thing a man wants to discover is that he's been had by a woman whom he thought loved him.

So the best way to ensure that his property remains his is via prenuptial agreements. Some women argue that if a man really loved his woman, he would trust her enough to do away with a prenuptial agreement, but like I mentioned before, a hateful woman is much different than a loving one.

I've also been told that prenuptial agreements give men free reign to be pricks and cheat on their wives without consequence, but with an argument like that, I can come back at you with this: Marriages without prenuptial agreements give women free reign to starve men of sex until they give them divorces, which leaves said women free to take their soon-to-be ex husbands for everything they have.

It can become a double-edged sword if no one is willing to see the other person's point of view. The last thing you want is a husband who thinks he has all the power because you signed a contract that would leave you with nothing should you leave; the last thing he wants is to have you quit the marriage in one fell swoop and leave him with nothing.

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Emailing For The First Time

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So you spot the lady you want to meet at some point on your online dating site. You want to email her for the first time, but have no idea what you should write.

How can you capture her attention? How can you ensure she responds? And what do you do once she does respond?

Lucky for you, I'm about to tell you all these things.

EMAILING FOR THE FIRST TIME TIP #1 KEEP IT SHORT

The last thing you want to do is send her an email that is so long it's intimdating. People who are online aren't big on reading for extended periods of time so keep your note short.

Let her know you noticed her and that you'd like to get a dialog going.

EMAILING FOR THE FIRST TIME TIP #2 SEND ONLY ONE EMAIL

The minute you press send, that's it. You're done. There's no writing a second email to tell her something you may have forgotten to mention.

Once you send that email out, the ball's in her court and you have to wait for her to respond. If she doesn't, then that's that. Move on. Don't hound her with myriad emails and say ridiculous things like "In case you didn't get my last email..."

Believe me, she got it.

EMAILING FOR THE FIRST TIME TIP #3 MENTION SOMETHING YOU REMEMBER

If she mentioned that she loves to snowboard in her profile, take that and run with it if that's what captures your attention. Mention the last place you went snowboarding or a wicked fall you had once upon a time.

The point is to take something from her profile and use it to let her know that you're paying attention and not SIMPLY CUTTING AND PASTING THE SAME EMAIL to every woman who catches your eye.

Your objective should be to focus on her, not yourself. So take some things from her profile and inject them into your email.

EMAILING FOR THE FIRST TIME TIP #4 ASK A QUESTION

If you want her to respond, ask her a question that might prompt her to do so. Make sure you don't ask a question that's already been answered in her profile, that is annoying.

Instead, think about what you'd like her to elaborate on. Did she mention she loves dogs? Then what's her favorite breed? Did she mention that she has a weakness for chocolate? Then ask her if she has ever tried Godiva's 70% dark.

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Sinn Drunk I Love You Pua Openers

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Text Message Dating Pros And Cons

Text message dating pros feedback and critique may be hard to take at first, but can also save you from a world of embarrassment.

TEXT MESSAGE DATING PROS #3

NEVER BE OUT OF TOUCH

For those of us happily in love, especially in the early stages of dating, we want to be with each other all of the time. We want to be able to reach out to him to share our every little thought and daily event.

With the text message, it doesn't matter where either of you are, you can always be together. At work, the park, a movie, you are never far from each other.

TEXT MESSAGE DATING PROS #4

EASILY IGNORED

Rejection isn't easy, whether you're giving or receiving. We've all been on the other side of it, and recognize the sensation of your heart dropping into your toes. Nobody wants to be the cause of that, to have that memory attached to our name. With the text message, you can subtly send your message by not sending a message.

Sure, it might be tinged with passive-aggression. Is it the most mature course of action? Absolutely not. But because the text message is so unreliable, with it comes a myriad of excuses for not responding: I didn't hear my phone, I never received it, I left my phone at home/the office/in the car, my battery died, my dog ate my phone, and a whole slew more.

With the text message, you can pretty much get away with a level of rudeness not acceptable in normal social interaction.

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