Sunday, January 2, 2011

Reasons For Cheating Of Men

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Women have always been baffled by cheating men. Most of the time, men who do cheating are the ones who have almost everything like Bill Clinton, Tiger Woods and Donald Trump. These men are famous, have power and riches and yet they cheated on their wives. Men usually give 'being men' as reasons for this but what are the real reasons behind their cheating. I have observed some of the possible reasons and here are they.

REASON #1: REVENGE

Cheating men cheat because they discovered their partner is cheating on them. They want their partners to feel the same shame or hurt that they felt. Usually, after their 'revenge' they split up from the relationship and hope to never find such relationship again. They just prove that cheating begets cheating and they want a woman stepping down on them. Yes, there are cheating men with that purpose. Well in this case women, you are accountable for the men's behavior. Be sure to do things that you want others do for you. Remember the golden rule your parents taught you? As for men, revenge shouldn't be a reason. Let the woman realize her mistake and suffer its consequences. I believe that is manlier.

REASON #2: CHEATING IS EXCITING

Cheating men sometimes get tired of the same old routine that is why they try something new. It doesn't follow that cheating men have 'other woman' who is more beautiful or sexy with their partners, sometimes they just want something else. Women, if you have encountered a man like this, do not blame yourself. If he doesn't want something about you, cheating is not the solution. He should have told you the truth and make necessary arrangements.

REASON #3: CHECKING IF THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT

Men may engage in cheating to test their abilities to be like other famous cheating men. Today, with technology, getting caught with cheating is easier so I hope men will realize that. Men, in proving something don't have to engage to what is wrong. They can still show their being manly through other good things. If your boyfriend has this reason, he doesn't deserve your time, energy and love. Believe that you will find someone better.

REASON #4: CHEATING MEN EXIST BECAUSE SOME HAVE ALLOWED IT

Men do cheating because other women forgave their cheating men in the past and because of this, they may also be forgiven too. This is a wrong thinking of men. Cheating has different cases; some may have unreasonable motives, some have justifiable case.

REASON #5: CHEATING REINFORCES THEIR EGO

Men do cheating because they want to be labeled as macho even though that reason is irrational and wrong. They want to feel the thrill and they always want their woman to stroke their ego. Cheating men like the feeling of being superior over women and cheating is one way to do that.

Women, do not put up with men with invalid reasons. Cheating is not the answer to fix what's missing or broken in a relationship. You deserve to be loved,valued and respected. Make sure you can find a man to have those for you.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Bryan Plumb - Rapport Cheating The Chemistry
Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women
Michael Hall - Mind Lines Lines For Changing Minds

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