5 Ways To Become A More Interesting Man

Let's face it; women don't want men who are boring. Sadly this is the case with most men and they wonder why their relationships fail or they don't go on that second date. Women lose interest. The trick is to become interesting. To be the type of man that women want to be around and learn more about. If a woman has recently asked you, 'what have you been up to?'

What was your reply?

If it was,' nothing much,' or 'not a lot really,' then you need to read my top 5 list of how to become a more interesting man.

HAVE HOBBIES

No I don't mean collecting stamps! Having a hobby makes your life more interesting and gives you added value. Hobbies, such as playing an instrument, learning a new language, learning martial arts, running a blog, playing poker, all intrigue people. Not only do they make your life more fulfilling but also give you more to discuss. You have the opportunity to meet new people and make friends by taking classes and lessons. It keeps you busy and gives you plenty to talk about. It also gives you the chance to introduce friends and the women you meet to your hobbies.

I have started to learn Spanish and will be starting lessons in Mixed Martial Arts soon.

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Knowledge is king and educating yourself more will only make you more interesting. Even keeping up on current affairs is great for conversations, as long as you stay away from controversial topics.

I am interested in self improvement and have read many self help books over the years that have transformed by life.

TRAVEL

One way to have interesting things to talk to women about and evolve as a person is to travel. This could be anything from going on holiday a few times a year to countries you have never been before, to travelling around the world. Life doesn't have to be boring and basic. Travelling improves your knowledge and life experiences.

I am fairly well travelled, but I haven't been to so many places. This I need to change.

BEFRIEND INTERESTING PEOPLE

An easy way of becoming more interesting is to associate with more interesting people. Bring more interesting people into your life that are out of the ordinary and inspire. Look for people who remind you of more of what you want in life and become it. I am not saying that you have to get rid of your old friends. In fact having a mixed social circle is a great trait to have.

My social circle is widening all the time. I admit in the past I didn't really mix with new people, but this is something I am changing.

HAVE GOALS IN YOUR LIFE

You need to have a dream. If you ask most people about their plans for the future they either wont know or talk about what they are doing on the weekend coming up, (which is probably what they did the previous weekend). You need to be ambitious and set yourself goals. But don't talk about it too much, get out their and fulfil your dreams and live it!

I want to live the internet lifestyle. I hate my current job working 9 till 5 doing the same thing everyday. I am currently in the process of making this happen and hopefully one day I will be able to quit my job and blog part time leaving me more free time to travel and take up more hobbies.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Jones - The Art Of Internet Dating
Halley Suitt - How To Become An Alpha Male In 18 Easy Lessons
Michael Lee - How To Be A Red Hot Persuasion Wizard

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