Hip stores such as Urban Outfitters can be good. There are lots of interesting props for sale there and lots of cute girls. Just pick an item of apparel and ask her opinion. My favorite stores are small boutiques that sell both men and women's clothes and are small enough to feel intimate. Your first assignment is to talk to the clerks. They are the gatekeepers. Make them like you and you will be able to chat up the customers. You enter the store.
You: (As a clerk approaches you) "Can I help you?"
Clerk: (She smiles) "Hey that's my line."
You: "I know. I'm sorry. I'll let you try it again."
You turn around, walk back a few feet and come in again.
Clerk: "May I help you?"
You: "Yes, I am looking for a stuffed crocodile."
Clerk: "Sorry, we don't have any of those."
You: "Of course you don't. Everyone is out of them. They're very popular this year. Right up there with flying turtles."
Always agree. You will find this out in your improvisational comedy class. You are taking improvisation, aren't you? Those classes will help you learn to think on your feet and be more... laid back.
You: "This seems like a fun store. What's it like managing this place?"
Clerk: (smiling) "I like it. There have been a lot of ups and downs but it's good."
You: "Yeah, my job is like that too."
Clerk: "What do you do?"
You: "You know the internet?"
Clerk: "Yeah."
You: "I help make that work."
Clerk: "Cool."
Try on some white dress shoes with a white belt and white fedora (think Usher here). Use this opportunity to sample clothes that you should be wearing but are too conservative for... yet. An Asian cutie comes into the store.
You: "What do you think of these sunglasses?"
Try the glasses on after you ask this, not before. You want to use your eyes to engage her.
Asian Cutie: (in an accent) "Um, no."
You: "Thanks for the opinion. I love your honesty. No one is honest anymore. What's your name?"
Asian Cutie: "My name is Carol."
She seemingly did something to earn your interest. The important thing here is that she thinks you really value her honesty, not that you do or not. It is only her perception of your perception that is relevant. Got it? Get it? Once you get in the habit of appreciation you will discover all kinds of things to authentically appreciate about a woman's words and actions. Until that day fake it. Did I mention you should take an acting class?
You: "Nice to meet you Carol."
Carol: (she starts giggling) "I gotta go."
Asian girls... I still haven't figured them out. Luckily we have an Asian specialist on staff at CSI. Another woman comes into the store. She is late thirties and hot, possible doggy hair stylist, possible boob job.
You: "What do you think of this hat?"
Her: "It's groovy."
You: "I thought I was the only one who said groovy anymore. Give me the rock."
She taps knuckles. Women her age love to flirt. You find a table to prop your butt on. If you meet a woman in a store or other public place where people generally just pass through, try to anchor yourself. Lean against something or sit down if possible. The lower the better. Women can have no idea you want to have an interaction. For all she knows you are just talking in passing. She would feel stupid if she were to commit to a conversation with a guy who was talking in passing. She has no idea of your intentions. So show her visually you are committed to the interaction and she might just commit as well. Like everything else with women, you usually have to lead.
You: "I have an intuition about you."
Her: "What?"
You: "Its nothing."
Her: "What?"
You: "Well... let me look in your eyes."
You gaze into her eyes.
Her: "What do you see?"
You: "You have sexy eyes."
Her: "And..."
You: "What are you doing for the next twenty minutes?"
Her: "Well, I got to go back to work."
You: "At the dog groomers?"
Her: "At the doctor's office."
You: "Right."
Her: "Why do you ask?"
You: "There is a good Mediterranean restaurant around the corner. It would be great to share lunch."
Her: "I like that place."
At lunch...
Her: "So what do you do?"
You: "Well... do you use a computer at work?
Her: "Yes, for patient records and such."
You: "Well in a way I make it so that you can exchange records with the pharmacist and the hospital."
When you are explaining something technical or out of the range of most women's interest or experience first try to relate it to her life.
Her: "That is so amazing. I do that all the time. I can't wait to tell everyone at the office I met you. You must be a genius."
You: "No, just a pet owner."
She laughs.
Her: "What kind of pet?"
At this point you transition into a statement of interest.
You: "I would find something interesting to do with these olives as I made love to you right on this table if it were not for all these Mediterranean people hanging about."
Women love sexual tension. Sexual tension is created when you reveal your desire but also acknowledge barriers. If you get a chance to read up on women's romance novels virtually every plot boils down to tension. The way to make use of sexual tension is not to look for problems within her. That is an amateur move. The barriers to you hooking up should be something in the environment or something in you. Something she can work to overcome. You can see that she is a little stunned.
You: "Anyway, is this the bill? Let's see, I had the falafel..."
(As you are leaving.)
You: "You want a ride?"
Her: "Yeah."
You are both quiet. This is the calm before the storm. In the car, it is on. She practically rapes you.
by Wayne Elise (Juggler)
Recommended books (free to download):
Derek Lamont - The Facebook Pickup Method
Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist
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