Life Is About Attitude

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Think about football. Think about the quarterbacks who are successful. The ones that are successful have that attitude - "Fuck you. You picked my pass off? I don't care. I'm coming back at you again in ten minutes anyway, and I'll keep doing it."

Brett Favre is notorious for that. Love him or hate him, he'll throw so many games away that he plays. He's 39, and look at his attitude. He'll throw five interceptions in a game, and he'll go fade back to pass and just do it again. He doesn't care.

And all the fans are sitting there, saying, "Oh no! He's doing it again..." but he just doesn't care.

You are caring too much, so when you walk over you approach her with an expectation of rejection. You're like that quarterback that's fading back to pass and all you're looking at are the defenders. You might as well just pick the one that you're going to throw directly to right off the bat.

I don't feel like I'm bothering anybody when I go over to someone to talk. And no one ever walks away from me.

But I used to feel that same way - that I was bothering someone when I approached them. You're not bothering them at all.

But when you walk over to them with that concern, you're bringing that energy with you. Women are feelers. Doesn't that drive you crazy? They are always feeling and describing those feelings. "I feel this..."

You sit there and you just want to fix everything. "Okay, you're feeling this way, and here's the solution..."

So the fact is that women feel your energy. She feels every little bit of your energy as you walk over. She senses your fear.

Animals smell fear, and so do women! We're basically all just animals, anyway. Think about the noises that people make when they fuck... we're animals! Just because we're standing upright doesn't mean that we're any better than Daphne. We may not smell each other's asses, but we're just like dogs.

So if you walk up to a woman with fear and the expectation of rejection, she'll know it and you're done. When you walk over like you don't give a shit how she reacts, she'll be responsive. She'll wonder, who is this guy?

It's a quantum switch inside your head. And once you make that switch, it's like a paradigm shift. It's an amazing shift in what you'll begin to receive from other people. You'll get what you want.

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Is Your Girlfriend Manipulating You

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She's sexy. She's hot. She turns you on more than any woman you've ever been with. Are you excited yet? Is there any problem that you can see in the foreseeable future?

In the beginning of the relationship, she does everything for you. She's cool. You go out with your friends, she doesn't question it at all. No crazy texts. No psychotic e-mails. Nothing. You start falling for her. You think you've met the most incredible woman you've ever met in your entire life.

And then all of a sudden, she doesn't get her way with something. And she starts using those female manipulation tactics. She starts questioning things that she was being so cool about at the beginning. All of a sudden now, she thinks you're flirting on Facebook. Or she thinks those girls you just added as friends are women that you want to have sex with.

She actually is now trying to control your entire life. Control in a way that you don't want to be controlled. But yet the sex is so great. She is cool most of the time, but all of a sudden you're in this relationship with her and things are changing on a daily basis. You notice that if she doesn't get her way, she becomes accusatory and she becomes downright mean at times. She starts using sex as a bargaining chip. She starts holding out for concert tickets, great dinners and other things. She starts talking about the future, but in that future you need to change some of the things that she was so excited about in the beginning.

You know what she's doing guys? She's a MANIPULATIVE GIRLFRIEND. She's a girlfriend that basically loved you for whomever you were, but now decided that she really wants you a different way, and she will not quit until she gets her way.

Oh, she'll make the sex "great". You'll take her to her favorite restaurant and she'll give you the best blow job and the best sex you've ever had. But then she'll take it away again the next time she doesn't get her way.

I'm not into manipulative girlfriends. I'm not into girlfriends that try to control you and de-balls you. As far as I'm concerned, if she liked you from the beginning she should love you more where you're at now.

Don't be taken in by a manipulative girlfriend. Don't be suckered in by some great sex. The bottom line is, if you're with a manipulative woman, a woman that always wants her way, a woman that is devious and accusatory and jealous over things that don't even exist, my suggestion to you is to run, to hide and get out of there fast.

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Man On Date Claims To Be A Cop

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Man claims to be a cop, threatens to arrest date

AARON WALTON is a genius. The 33-year-old thought that telling his date that he was a cop was the greatest idea ever. Unfortunately, his idea went to crap when he threatened to arrest her if she didn't go home with him.

The victim called police on Tuesday night saying she was on a date with a guy who claimed to be a cop but she was suspicious that he might be lying.

AARON WALTON was arrested after the police arrived at a McDonald's restaurant to meet the woman and heard her story, The police then went to the man's home and arrested him without incident.

He was not just arrested for claiming to be a cop; the police found several items at his place that might lead others to believe he was actually a police officer. And I'm sure that some daft women believed that if they did not go with his home and have sex with him, they would be arrested.

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Women Please Help Need Some Advice Does This Girl Like Me

Theres these two girls. Peak friends. And I like them also. We'll call them Ann %26amp; Fear. Ann positively likes me and ive been kinda talkin to her but the one i positively want is her friend Fear. But Im not specified how Fear feels. And thats what Im trying to price out so I dont lead Ann on. N E Ways. Fear flirts with me boldly im not that girl too costly. We take pleasure in these muffled moments that we relate to into eachothers eyes for like 4, 5 seconds and they exist like 10-15 times everynight. She comes and pinches my cheeks and says oh your so cute. She comes and asks me to play go ashore with her when donate are like 15 previous people that she has been friends with longer that she could ask. I in remuneration flirt back in some way. But then heres what throws me off. Sometimes shes getting collection and gets all dolled-up and person asked her why you getting all pure up and then she say Im gonna find myself a hot man tonight. And sometimes she says ideas like you're my best homeboi. So what is goin on? Im so confused. does she like me and is just troubled of dreadful her friend?Women make happy help. Dependent state some advice. Does this girl like me.?

I'm unpleasant to say this but I think that she just thinks of you as a friend. Convinced girls are just naturally flirty and pigsty boys like yo-yo's. I think you necessity look person extremely for a girlfriend. Maybe ';Ann'; would be a good first-rate, talk to her get to come across her snooty. Who knows you command find you take pleasure in snooty regular with her. At token you will come across where you stand xWomen make happy help. Dependent state some advice. Does this girl like me.?

just ask her and see wat u 2 can do togeather

sounds like she likes snooty just as a friend.

hmmm I think she is just a big flirt and that's how she is and you are misinterpreting her signs. if she calls your her best homeboi and says oh your so cute then she isn't in to you. unpleasant. go for Ann

Go for it, being girls say stuff like ';find myself a hot man'; and similar stuff to that. She seemingly says the ';homeboi'; orphan being she's confused if you like her too. I'm 99% specified she likes you. Important Luck I delicate everything works out for you!

She totally likes you! Go for it ;)

My advice, talk to ';ann'; and tell her whats going on in your head that way if ideas turn out that you and chime shift a relationship... it's not akward and you aren't dreadful any feelings or loosing any friends. It's documented to remain honest. It sounds like this girl chime is throwing the moves at ya.... remuneration them, sit her down and ask her if she thinks there's everything among the two of you, if not.... no love smooth. If donate is then go from donate and tell her how you feel, be romantic and open, girls love a man that shows some real emotion! Hell it could turn into one of the best relationships you have! Important luck! relive it is better to take pleasure in loved and smooth then to take pleasure in never loved at all!

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Teen Marriage

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Over the past few decades or so, marriage has surely taken a hit as far as society is concerned. With more than 50% of couples getting divorced, it certainly seems hard to make a marriage work out nowadays. Your marriage most likely won't last very long unless you put in a lot of work building it up. There will also be certain things that you need to do to ensure that it happens. Here is a look at some of the top ingredients of a successful marriage.

True feelings of love is one of the most important ingredients of a successful marriage. If you get married to someone you don't truly love, then you can't really expect for things to work out very well. Many people get married for financial security or something. Without true compatibility and love, the union likely won't last very long.

One of the next things you need in order to have a great marriage is excellent communication. You will want to discuss your feelings and emotions with your partner without hesitation. You should try to communicate well enough that you never go to bed angry or withhold your feelings in any way.

Trust is one of the next things that you will need to have in order to have a successful marriage. Suspecting that your partner isn't being true to you isn't any way to live in a marriage. Instead, you should be comfortable knowing that you can trust your partner with all of your heart.

You will also need to work on spending quality time with your partner. Don't let a busy lifestyle undermine your marriage. If both of you are extremely busy during the day, then try to keep in touch over the phone if you have to.

Avoid always being too serious with your partner. Your relationship will be much better if the two of you have fun. The more that you do that, the happier you will probably be overall in your relationship.

If you want a successful marriage, then you will need to be responsibility. Responsibility is important in all aspects of life from caring for your children to managing your finances. You shouldn't have to be told how stressful it will be for your marriage to be deep in debt.

It is also vital that couples have respect for each other. You want to avoid making your partner feel that you think you're better.

Kristie Brown writes on a variety of topics from health to technology. Check out her websites on Save my marriage and Free marriage advice

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Alpha Mail The Necessary Distinction

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Not only is King A's attempted criticism illogical, it reveals that he doesn't grasp the difference between "social" and "socio-sexual":

Yeah. I got just about the reaction I expected from this blog. An indication of the value of a publication is the quality of reader attracted to it....

Of course there are different styles of leadership. The question is, why does this particular trait require the fabrication of an entirely new category of man? That was never adequately explained, and Occam's razor says it is an embarrassing attempt to project one's cherished idiosyncrasies over an already widely established method of communication.

Since King A is not only a regular reader, but a commenter, he is doing little more than savaging his own tail in a futile attempt to take an irrelevant shot at this blog. And everyone who reads it. Based on this information, what can we conclude about his socio-sexual rank, everyone?

I find his inability to understand the need to define the Sigma class to be more interesting, in that unlike most casual observers of Game, he doesn't confuse the sexual with the socio-sexual, but the social instead. The need for the Sigma class should be obvious, since it is a statistically significant observed socio-sexual type. It's not merely that it happens to describe my own "cherished idiosyncracies", but also those of many men who have similar socio-sexual success despite behaving in a very, very different way than the more conventional and common Alpha.

As to why the "particular trait" requires the category, Omega's post makes it perfectly clear. Sigmas are introverts. Introverts do not think like extroverts, they do not behave like extroverts, and they have a fundamentally different psychological profile than extroverts. What works for extroverts does not work for introverts and vice-versa.

In Game terms, telling an introverted Delta to mimic the behavior of an extroverted Alpha not only isn't going to work very well, even if it does work, it's probably going to make life miserable for the introverted pseudo-Alpha. Since 75% of the population is extroverted, it should be no wonder that conventional Game which doesn't account for the introvert/extrovert divide works pretty well for most people. But this underlines the importance of broadening the concepts so that it has the chance of successfully addressing the other 25% as well.

And it's particularly important given that successful Sigmas are far less inclined to care about their social success, much less impart it to others. For example, excluding Spacaebunny, I spoke a grand total of six words to five different adults today even though I was out and about in four different locations for several hours. If I didn't share information on this blog, it would never leave my mind. There will never be a series of Sigmas travelling around the country doing speeches, conducting classes, and selling videos; aside from Roissy, who shuns even interviews, the Pick-Up Artist community is obviously a collection of extroverts, who, like most extroverts, have no clue at all about how introverts can be successful except by mimicking extroverts.Alpha Game 2011

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Cheesy Wedding Songs

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When asked to pick songs that sum up the cheesy music we're forced to listen to when people get married, I was hard-pressed to choose just ten. From the church aisle to the last call, there are many stinkers ripe for the picking. The following cheesiest wedding songs were selected for their age, firmness and moisture content, or maybe that's actually cheese

CHEESIEST WEDDING SONGS #1 WEDDING MARCH by MENDELSSOHN

This piece of incidental music was written by Mendelssohn for an 1842 German production of Shakespeare'"A Midsummer Night's "In the play, it would have been used in the scene of a royal wedding or a wedding between fairies, either way it was meant to be theatrical and most certainly cheesy.

It was not performed at a real life wedding until the English/Prussian Royal Wedding of Victoria Adelaide Mary Louise and Frederick William IV in 1858. As so often with trends set by the British Royalty, the masses immediately jumped on the showy bandwagon and since, this tune has been dragged out for weddings more times than that drunken uncle who always embarrasses us at get-togethers.

CHEESIEST WEDDING SONGS #2 AVE MARIA by SCHUBERT

Schubert wrote this piece originally as part of a larger work, "Liederzyklus vom Fraulien vom See" or "The Lady of the Lake". The music was set to the German translation of Walter Scott's epic poem by Adam Storck.

It is rumored it was written for Countess Sophie Weissenwolff of Austria and she subsequently became known as the Lady of the Lake herself. In the poem, the character Ellen Douglas is singing to the Virgin Mary on top of a rock or something in the opening lines and thus, the common misconception became that the piece was written for the traditional Roman Catholic Prayer, Ave Maria.

CHEESIEST WEDDING SONGS #3 UNCHAINED MELODY by THE RIGHTEOUS BROTHERS

Surely one of the most widely and unanimously misinterpreted songs for a "first dance" of all time. Inevitably, newly married couples end up blissfully swinging around to this one, only listening to the haunting, melodic strains of the Ever So Righteous Brothers completely ignoring the fact they are singing about being away from their loves, possibly forever, on a slave ship.

At the outside they're singing about being in chains or prison and frankly, how cynical is that at a wedding?

CHEESIEST WEDDING SONGS #4 LIVIN' LA VIDA LOCA by RICKY MARTIN

Here we go! Now it's party time! The oh so tanned one's seminal dance floor stormer is sure to get aunts and cousins alike up and shakin' it.

Generally the first song after dinner, this pan-racial, trans-cultural standard is the most obvious choice the DJ can make when faced with three generations of musical ambivalence. Without a doubt, not one for anyone actually living la vida loca.

CHEESIEST WEDDING SONGS #5 MAMBO #5 by LOU BEGA

And cross fade segue to the other vaguely Latin hit, Mambo # PleaseKillMeNow. I remember when this first came out and you couldn't turn on the radio without hearing it. It was everywhere, the repetitive chorus, all those girls' names, I thought to myself, No, I will not learn these lyrics, I will not sing these lyrics in my head 10 years later. "A little bit of Rita's all I need, a little bit of Tina's all I see, a little bit of Jessica in the sun" damn.

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