Thursday, December 30, 2010

How To Get Them Attracted

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One of the most pervasive misconceptions about dating is that men should already know HOW TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN and how to get them attracted. But if nobody taught you, how are you supposed to know? Sure, some lucky fellas seems to have a natural knack when it comes to attracting women, while others are blessed with stunning good looks or high social status which makes APPROACHING WOMEN much easier. But what to do when you haven't got a clue on how to get a girl to like you? Luckily, attraction is a skill that can be learned by anyone, and I'm here to help.

Keep in mind that only practice makes perfect: the first few times, you probably aren't going to see great results (but then, maybe you will); if this happens, don't lose faith and keep trying: eventually you will get good at it, it's only a matter of time and effort. You must understand that rejection (when approaching a girl you just met) is not a personal things: if it happens, shrug it off and move on.

When you talk to a woman you just met, ask for her name and then use it often when you're talking to her. This helps build a stronger connection between the two of you. I'm not saying to overdo it, but take the opportunity to insert her name in a sentence whenever the opportunity arises to do it in a natural way.

Try to read what her current mood is and then mimic it. If she's euphoric, try to be euphoric too. If she's in a more relaxed state, then you should be in a calm mood too. Again, this is a great help when trying to build a connection.

Be selective with questions you ask her. You don't want the conversation to be all about the questions you ask her, but there are some key ones that you can definitely ask: what her interests are, for example. It's also great to get more information about her.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman
Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Her Chasing You
Anthony Berger - How To Get Into Threesomes

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