Mistakes Smart Singles Make

You're smart and have a great attitude about life, so why the hell are you still single? It always seems like the ones you aren't interested in fall head over heels and the ones you do want never call back, so what is going on?

Chances are you're a smart single making some pretty stupid mistakes.

MISTAKES SMART SINGLES MAKE

10- RELYING ON DESTINY OR FATE

Waiting for things to just "happen" is really ridiculous. Think about it; you went to school, studied hard and graduated, and then applied for myriad jobs before landing one.

So why would your personal life be easier? If you want it, you have to figure out exactly what you want and how you plan on getting it. In this case, it's a significant other, so you're going to have to put yourself out there if you want to reap any chances of a relationship.

MISTAKES SMART SINGLES MAKE

9- COMMITTING TOO SOON

You finally go on a date with someone you really like and after a few dates, they seem to disappear from your life. What happened?

Well, there's a good chance that, because you liked this person so much, they smelled the reek of leech on you and took off because you wanted to much too soon.

Take it easy; even when you really like someone and think that this might be it, don't start planning the future after a couple of steak dinners.

MISTAKES SMART SINGLES MAKE

8- JUDGING TOO SOON

You seem to be cursed with meeting people who just don't fit the bill. Or are you?

When you spend all your time DISMISSING DATES because they don't have exactly what you want, you end up narrowing down your chances at finding love to almost nil.

Holding out for someone who meets every single criteria on your "perfect mate" list will end up killing off all other mates who could potentially be good for you.

MISTAKES SMART SINGLES MAKE

7- THINKING SEX WILL LEAD TO MORE

We live in a time where sex for most is as casual as "pass the sugar", but if you are the kind of person who has sex pretty quickly into the relationship, it's ridiculous to assume that having sex will mean anything more than that.

Sex isn't the closer in a relationship, that little contract that binds you together is, so don't make the mistake of thinking that because you exchanged bodily fluids that somehow things are going to take a turn for the more serious.

MISTAKES SMART SINGLES MAKE

6- REJECTING BEFORE GETTING REJECTED

In a bid to keep your record of "never having been dumped" at a perfect score, the moment you sense disinterest in the other person, you walk off in a huff and a puff, acting like you're not interested.

Getting rejected, however, is part of the game. Not everyone is going to like you, but if you don't give anyone the chance to get to really know you for fear of rejection, how do you even expect to find the one you're searching for?

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Deangelo - The Secret Files
Ken Lingu - The Art Of Sensual Massage
Sylvester Onyemalechi - 16 Common Mistakes Single Men Make

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