Dating Tips After Divorce

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When you get divorced, dating becomes a much harder task than a lot of people would think. This is different as oppose to finding a boyfriend, wondering if you're man cheated on you or looking to get back with an ex. A divorce involves marriage, a union between two people and how that bond was broken due to irreconcilable differences. How exactly does someone recover from that? After being in a long and loving relationship, how do you move on and start a new one?

Dating after divorce has its own complications, struggles, and trials. Dating alone has its difficulties but now you have to factor in your ex spouse, the opinions of your family, and your children. Despite all the complications, dating after divorce is still possible. Don't let being divorced stop you from spending your life with a man who loves and who you can love back.

KEEP IT CASUAL

When you go out on a first date, it's important to keep things casual and simple. Your date should know you've just gone through a tough separation and a simple night out is something that should be fun. Don't overthink that this your first time out after divorce and self-destruct. You need to calm down and keep your head up. Despite being divorced, a date is still a date and you should respect the guy who is taking you out.

Remember what it used to feel like going on a first date. It's all about getting to know each other and making small talk. Go watch a movie, eat out, walk around the park, or any other simple thing. As you try to keep things casual, make sure that there wouldn't be too many awkward moments between you and your date.

KEEP THE PAST IN THE PAST

In the course of the date, sometimes it's inevitable to talk about your ex spouse. This is understandable since your date has to know that you are divorced. In the same way, you should also know if he was married and has kids. Even though these conversations will eventually come up, don't spend the entire night talking about your exes and what happened after divorce. Your date only needs to know the important matters and no longer the details about your marriage. When you say you're divorced, you don't have to talk about exactly how things went with your ex.

DONT MAKE LOVE ON THE FIRST DATE

A lot of people have the mentality of spending the night with someone they just met. However, when it comes to having sex after divorce, it's best to not do it. Don't let physical hunger get in the way of proper thinking. You have to stay focused and think of all the possible consequences if you end up in the guy's bed in the morning. First, he can think that you're just lonely and desperate being divorced for so long. Second, think about your kids. What will they think if you spend the night with someone else?

These are just some pointers you need to remember when you are out dating after divorce. Don't forget to keep things casual and have fun. Be considerate by not talking too much about the ex. And since you are divorced, there is no need to rush in making love on the first date after divorce.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Dr Joy Browne - Dating For Dummies
C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report

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