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JANIS SPINDEL, PRESIDENT AND FOUNDER OF JANIS SPINDEL SERIOUS MATCHMAKING, INC., HAS MORE THAN 900 MARRIAGES TO HER CREDIT AND A DATABASE OF MORE THAN 27,000 EXCEPTIONAL PEOPLE. JANIS IS OBSESSED WITH FINDING THE PERFECT MATCH. SHE HAS APPEARED ON "CBS THE EARLY SHOW, NBC THE WEEKEND TODAY SHOW, 60 MINUTES II", AND" AND FRIENDS", AND HAS BEEN FEATURED IN THE" YORK TIMES, THE NEW YORKER, NEW YORK MAGAZINE", AND THE "WALL STREET JOURNAL".

READERS QUESTION:

I recently used a matchmaking service to find a potential husband, but ended up nowhere and felt like crap because the one and only man I met treated me like dirt (a hooker, if you will). Are all older men searching for nothing more than trophy girlfriends? I think I have it all - looks, smarts, success - but I can't seem to find a man who appreciates what I have to offer. I'm already 32. Please help me figure out what I'm doing wrong.

TARA

Janis Spindel's answer:

Serious Matchmaking owner and matchmaker Janis Spindel discusses trophy wives.

Serious Matchmaking reveals why men treat women like dirt, or trophy wives and what you should do to avoid being categorized in this group of women.

Find out if all older men are searching for trophy girlfriends and trophy wives.

Serious Matchmaking's Janis Spindel knows that most women have it all nowadays. They have looks, smarts and success, but just can't seem to find a man who appreciates what they have to offer.

The answer to that question is men, older men, are not looking for trophy wives. The men that I deal with in my matchmaking service are commitment-minded, well groomed, well educated, upscale professionals, but they are very picky. They want what they want and that is the following:

MEN ARE LOOKING FOR THE 4 BS:

1- Beauty
2- Brains
3- Body
4- Balance

If, and only if, you have the 4 Bs, you take care of your body and lead a healthy lifestyle, have confidence and personality, etc., then you should not have a problem finding the right man.

The men are out there, that's for sure. The real question is: Are you emotionally available? Does your body language say, "Hey, I want to meet a man?" Or, are you intimidating to them when you are in a social situation?

If you are age appropriate, let's say age 32, and you want to meet a man over 40, do you have any idea where to look?

This is the $64,000 question ladies. So pay close attention.

Men are everywhere. It could be at a parking garage, Starbucks waiting in line, at the supermarket, a sporting event, or even a shoe shine place. Anywhere you look, you'll find men.

Ladies, it's very simple. Here is the Serious Matchmaking secret formula:

It's called "Serious Matchmaking - Hello Challenge."

Smile and say "hello" to at least 6 men this week.

Your smile is your calling card - just do it - trust me, it works.

And if you are really nervous - practice on men you aren't really attracted to. You will make them feel good and then be ready for the real guys when they finally come knocking.

That's it. If you do this, you will get results.

Join Serious Matchmaking Free Teleseminars and register today.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Michael Hall - Secrets Of Personal Mastery
Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Her Chasing You
Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman

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