What To Do When She Says I Have A Boyfriend

A chick usually only says this for one of two reasons:

Case 1) She really has a BF , likes you but doesn't want to feel guilty about cheating on her BF . This is classical "chick logic" at work here and is good, because it means you are on your way to a fuck, even in spite of the BF ... Basically this happens because she thinks that if she tells you about the BF now, she can relax and let you you fuck her anyways, since its "not her fault now" that she fucked you, because, she *did* tell you about the boyfriend, and you ignored it, ie. she "had no choice in the matter".

Case 2) She may (or may not) have a BF , but is feeling not secure and defensive so threw this up to slow you down. This is different than the above situation in (1). Here you got to get her to relax and like you more and then continue.. Read more on this below in mrsex4unyc's comments. Before that, a good comeback when you ask a chick her number, and she says "I have a BF "... Say "I didn't ask *HIM* out, I asked *YOU*... now, the number..." This will usually throw a chick off, and you can then get the phone number...

How to indirectly ask about boyfriend?

What is the desired outcome? To fuck her. Why should you bother whether she has a boyfriend? Many girls _always_ have someone they can call a boyfriend. But ... but ... they can find a better one! As Ross would say. So here's a 3 step scenario:

1 - don't ask about BF .
2 - seduce her.
3 - fuck her.

Possibly, a fourth: 4 - get her to dump him for you.

In any case, if she's happy with him she will let you know early enough in phase 2. EXACTLY CORRECT! first of all FORGET ABOUT whether she has a BF . if she does and she doesn't want you, she will TELL YOU HERSELF! make no mistake, she hasn't forgotten about him until you bring the guy up. she's seeing if she likes you more. I started dating a girl I had LJBF 'd and I told her that the only reason I waited so long was that she told me when we met that she had a boyfriend. she was still seeing the guy when I started screwing her. she said "normally when I see a guy that I like, I tell him I'm single" see what I mean. she told me she had a boyfriend and is STILL sexing me AND admitted to me that she only has a boyfriend when it's necessary to back a guy off. when she is in front of a guy she wants, she acts like she doesn't have a boyfriend at all. the other points are correct also. a boyfriend is an obstacle to the desired outcome: fucking her. you may or may not have to deal with this. in my case, I have noticed that chicks do what they want to when they want to. all YOU have to do is get them to believe they want you to fuck them and it's on. boyfriend or no boyfriend :)

If she says she has a boyfriend.... I usually just say "Figures" and follow up with a few compliments and a boy-I'm-glad-I-didn't-ask posture (not supplicating, but knowing). That's if I asked her about her status. I always delay asking about boyfriends. I ask about other things first. normally, in the course of a conversation, a chick can tell that you are NOT just talking to her to waste time. you are after fucking her and it becomes her job to become receptive or fend you off. if she decides to fend you off, she will come up with a boyfriend interjection, like you mention later. this may or MAY NOT be true. don't take bitches' word that they are "taken". it is often a nervous reaction that they have since they can't figure out the BEST thing to do, they hide behind what NORMALLY scares guys off. the trick is keying in on their demeanor and their eyes when they say they have a boyfriend. their bodies ALWAYS betray them, so make sure you are looking at her face AND body when she says this. some chicks, you can tell they mean that they are CONTENT with their boyfriends and are not entertaining sex with anyone else. some chicks, you can tell that they only want a RELATIONSHIP with their boyfriends, but are willing to FUCK YOU if you can stand having no strings attached and perhaps not even her number so you can call her in the future (normally she says she LIVES with her boyfriend to hide her number).

Whether she has a boyfriend or not is IRRELEVANT... UNTIL you decide you are going to fuck her. Then you either need to bring him up and press her for the information where her relationship is lacking OR make her recall her boyfriend and how good he makes her feel and usurp the feelings for yourself. Either way, a "boyfriend" is merely a change in the game, like playing football against 15 players instead of 11. the game is the same though. chicks operate on FREE WILL. as long as you can get them to BELIEVE that they want to fuck YOU, that's it! boyfriends, husbands, girlfriends, religion, NOTHING COUNTS if you can make her BELIEVE she wants you deep inside her... NOW! If she injects the boyfriend into the conversation unsolicited, a neg may be in order, or a simple diversion to whether or not she plans to marry him. I like the are you getting married to him angle a lot. the first time I used it I was surprised at the ADAMANT denial of marrying her boyfriend :) after that, I always use it if I decide NOT to bring him up and get her to talk about him favorably. Another thing I like to use if she is DEFENSIVELY bringing up her boyfriend is "so where is he tonight?" If she doesn't have a good excuse like he is working late because he is a stock trader, I play her into a "he's cheating on you right now" mentality. chicks can't stand that. PLUS they have to carry this with them from now on.

I break down their BELIEF in what their boyfriend TELLS THEM he has to do. me: so where is your boyfriend tonight? her: he had to stay late to prepare for a meeting tomorrow me: he stays late at work every night? her: no, only on tuesdays because the staff meeting is wednesdays me: her: what me: hahaha my boy used to call his girlfriend from my house to say he was working late... her: and? me: well, nothing... then we would hit the strip clubs! boy he was a horny guy... he used to put the dollars in the strippers' g-strings with his teeth and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah then he would drop me off and go home to fuck his girl HAHAHAHA what a sucker! :) whether they believe me or not is irrelevant because they don't know me and they don't know my "friend" that used to do this. all they do know is that they now have an alternative version of what their man is doing tonight and every night that he is not with her. after that sinks in, I talk about wasting time and wasting your life and passing up opportunities to do what you REALLY WANT TO DO just because of some bullshit you told someone one day, like "I am only going to fuck you" when they are out doing whatever they want. then I bring up chicks that got cheated on and how stupid they felt when they were telling me about how they got played :) you can see how it just strings along and breaks their BELIEF in their man. adding the effects of alcohol, you often get a flirtatious effect from the chick deciding to "get him back for cheating" when he was at work the whole time :)

Personally, I find pursuing taken women to be lame and low-percentage, but Ross touts his "boyfriend destroyer" pattern. it is lame as far as seduction goes, but there is much skill involved. the trick is to stay fluid and change your style according to the way the game changes before your eyes. if she doesn't have a boyfriend, that implies that she is available (will take anybody) OR very picky (won't take anybody) if she does have a boyfriend that means she is committed (won't fuck anybody) OR using him for security (will fuck YOU, but that's as far as it goes... no relationship, just fun for her) you can see how it is irrelevant whether she has a boyfriend or not. what IS relevant is how she feels about herself and what she wants out of this night, right now and what she wants out of her future. figure it out and change yourself into the man she wants to fuck her tonight. it's not very complicated after you elicit her values.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

William Robinson - Woman Her Sex And Love Life
Haldeman Julius - What Great Men Have Said About Women

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Secrets Of Dating Beautiful Women

BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT...

Or are they?

I get a lot of emails from guys who ask me what they should do, because they've met an UNUSUALLY attractive woman. It seems that most men intuitively guess that they need to do something SPECIAL with a REALLY hot woman...something different than they'd usually do.

If you are going to date BEAUTIFUL women, there are a few things that you should keep in mind.

First of all, they are still WOMEN.

So the concepts and techniques that you've learned from me will still apply.

But there are a few things that you will want to remember when you're dealing with the UNUSUALLY attractive women.

1) She's likely to be or have been a model, an actress, or a dancer (topless or otherwise).

When a woman goes through the experience of these professions, certain things occur like clockwork.

First of all, she's quickly realizes that these industries are all filled with sleazy, opportunistic men who are REALLY in it for the sex.

This provides a unique sort of education for a woman, as she gets to practice "playing against" some of the best "players" out there.

These men have often been in the industry for many years, and have learned and created specific techniques for manipulating women... and getting sex from them.

After just a few months or a year in the business, most women come out the other side with a different perspective on men.

And they come out SMARTER.

In other words...

THEY KNOW WHEN YOU'RE TELLING STORIES JUST TO GET SEX

One of these women also learns how to make a man feel INSTANTLY uncomfortable if she doesn't want to talk to him. It's a natural, normal defense mechanism, and beautiful women are usually very good at it.

If she has been a topless dancer, then you can bet on a couple of things... One, she's not going to tell you up front about it. Two, she's going to have some issues when it comes to connecting with other human beings on a "real" level. Dancers have to learn how to ACT like real people, while disconnecting their actual true selves from the interactions. It's usually not a good thing.

2) Beautiful women have more choices, but this often means that they're also bored.

Most guys assume that a really beautiful woman is only interested in tall, rich, handsome men.

Well, these things certainly don't hurt.

But guess what?

Just like anything else, the novelty wears off for beautiful women.

Sure, it's nice to be 19 years old and riding around in a Mercedes, going to dinner at nice places, etc.

But beautiful women are still people, and people get bored with things quickly.

It doesn't take long after you have everything you want... before you start wanting things just because you CAN'T HAVE THEM.

More on this in just a moment.

3) Beautiful women are used to being treated special because of their physical beauty, and not appreciated for their minds or talents.

Beauty creates distance.

The more beautiful a woman is (or makes herself with makeup, clothing, hairstyles, and other "enhancements") the more difficult it becomes for other humans to interact with her and communicate with her in a "normal" way.

When you start talking to a woman who has obviously spent many hours preparing herself, putting on makeup, choosing just the right outfit, doing her hair, and MOST IMPORTANTLY practicing that certain "attitude" that creates the air of untouchable beauty, YOU CAN FEEL IT.

Something is very different.

She knows it and you know it.

And she WANTS you to know it...

Beauty gives women power.

IT GIVES WOMEN POWER BECAUSE IT CAUSES MEN TO "GIVE AWAY" THEIR POWER.

...so let's talk about what these things mean...and what to do about them...

How do you communicate to a model, actress or dancer that you're comfortable with them, and not intimidated by their job or beauty?

Right! Make fun of them!

If a woman says "I'm a model", say "Oh, like a parts model or something? What, do you have sexy toes?"

If she says "I'm an actress", say "Nice, so what you're telling me is that you're a waitress, but you do some extra work on the side?"

If she's a topless dancer, say "How did you get this job? What, did you have to pay someone off?"

Joking around, busting on them, and teasing INSTANTLY communicates that you're NOT going to give them any special treatment for their "beauty job", and that, if anything, you see their job as an "average" thing to be doing.

Works like magic.

To address the issue of beautiful women having more opportunities to live "the good life" and be spoiled by men who have money, etc...

As I said, everything in life gets boring if you get too much of it.

Sooner or later, every guy in a suit and tie with a Mercedes starts to blend into the next. And all the food starts to taste the same at nice restaurants (beautiful women never order anything off the menu without changing SOMETHING anyway).

So what does a woman who has it all WANT?

SHE WANTS TO BE "CHALLENGED."

Here's a GREAT mindset to take with a woman who seems to be a little too used to "the good life"...

Just say "You know what? You're a spoiled BRAT."

That should get her attention.

Then follow up with "It's too bad you're not more of a normal, nice girl..."

The protests should be starting by this point...

"But I AM a nice girl..."

"Suuuure you are. Me too."

Are you with me?

The message is "Just because you're spoiled and snotty, don't think you're going to get special treatment from me. In fact, it's a problem."

This creates a HUGE challenge (which attractive women love), and sets you apart from all the other "boring" guys she's been out with lately.

Will some women stick their noses up in the air and laugh at you? Sure, it will happen once in awhile. Good. It's better sooner than later... and I mean that.

And finally, to deal with the fact that Beauty creates distance, you must be strong... you must remember that her beauty is a freak accident of nature (combined with the magic of hair and beauty products).

Best way to proceed? Don't mention or acknowledge her looks at all. Totally avoid the topic, and if she brings it up, just make fun of her.

This one idea alone, or ignoring her beauty and treating her like just another friend who you're comfortable with will have a MAJOR effect.

Sometimes women will get so shaken by this that they'll start acting NERVOUS. They'll wonder if they have eyeliner running down their face, or if something else is wrong.

Here's the deal: Women can tell INSTANTLY if you're affected by their beauty. If you are, they know that they're in control.

MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN WIND UP CRAVING ATTENTION.

They become so used to getting massive amounts of special attention that they HAVE to have it. It becomes part of life.

And when they meet a man that is interesting, charming, funny (AND COCKY!), they take note.

Is this everything? No, but it's a damn good start.

Oh, one more IMPORTANT thing.

I'd like you to think for a moment about what it's like when you see a REALLY beautiful woman walk by.

I'm talking about the kind of woman that you only see every few MONTHS or so... maybe once a year.

Think about how you stop, look again, keep looking...

And how it makes you feel inside.

Guess what?

To that unusually beautiful woman, most men seem the same. To her, men all blur together into a big mass of compliments, offers for dates, and attention.

But there is a type of guy that REALLY makes her stop, do a double take, and pay attention.

There is a type of guy that STANDS OUT... the kind of guy that comes along maybe every few months... or maybe only once a year.

By David DeAngelo

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Chris Jackson - Secrets Of Undressing Women
Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women

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How To Start Talking To A Woman In A Nightclub

One of the single biggest mistakes guys make in nightclubs is focusing all of their time on one girl. They don't realize that in a bar or nightclub the reality is that you can meet as MANY women as you want. Unlike other situations, women usually stick around a club for several hours, so you're sure to see a woman again. Meeting a lot of women is important - if it doesn't work out with one, you'll have several other options. PLUS, you'll subconsciously come across as more of a challenge because you'll know that she isn't your only choice.

So here's how to do it:

When you see a girl (or group of girls) that you'd like to meet, go up to them and get them laughing or engage them in some simple conversation (I'll tell you some great opening lines in a second). Then tell them you have to get back to your friends, and maybe you'll see them later. Move on to the next girl or group and do EXACTLY the same thing. This does a couple of important things all at once... One of these things is that it sets you apart from most other guys in her mind.

Why? Because most guys will start a conversation and then "cling" on to the woman, staying FAR too long and boring her with routine conversation. On top of that, most guys wait for the WOMAN to end the conversation or walk to a different part of the bar. When YOU are the one to end the conversation first, it communicates that you're an independent guy who doesn't "need" to talk to her. This is like STEROIDS for attraction.

It also builds "social proof." When women see that you're talking to other women in the bar, they know that you're an in-demand kind of guy... and if they aren't able to win you over, some other woman will. Women are highly competitive, and this drives them NUTS - which, of course, is great for attraction.

It also creates familiarity - the next time you see them they'll feel you are old buddies.

GREAT OPENING LINES

A powerful way to start these conversations is to point out something funny that's happening in the club. Find a guy who's wearing a funny outfit, then walk up to a group of girls and say, "Hey girls, do you think I'd look better if I was wearing THAT guy's shirt?"

Another great approach is to purposefully bump into a girl, then look her right in the eyes and say, "Watch it punk," with a totally serious face. The girl will start to get all sorts of funny looks on her face - she won't know if you're trying to start a fight with her (which of course makes no sense whatsoever) or what - then right when you feel she's about to call you an asshole... crack a smile and bump her with your butt. Tell her "I'm just kidding, you dork"... she'll start cracking up.. and you'll be IN.

This is completely different than anything they've ever seen in a club. It's totally ballsy, and it totally works.

Or, as an alternative, after you bump her with your butt simply walk away. What's great about this is it creates a sense of "mystery" in her mind - she'll wonder where you went, and when she sees you again she'll be very interested to talk to you.

Another fun thing to do is to find a group of girls sitting down at a table, sit right down next to them and say, "Hey girls, sorry I'm late, traffic was CRAZY getting over her. You didn't order drinks without me did you? What kind of drink do I have coming?

THE THUMB WAR

But one of the most childish and ridiculously enjoyable ways to approach a woman is with a thumb war.

Walk up to a woman, don't say a word, and put out your hand like you're doing to shake hands. But when she gives you her hand, look at it funny, turn it around in thumb war position, and start the game. Try taunting her while you're playing. "You suck. You are so going to lose... I'm going to dominate you right now in front of all your friends..."

After you annihilate her, crack a sly smile and then walk away. She'll be so hooked that don't be surprised if she approaches YOU later in the evening to find out more about who you are.

SAY SOMETHING FLIRTY EVERY TIME

The key to all this is to say something flirty to her every time you see her.

Tell her she looks like she's up to something. "Are you guys planning something over here... you look suspicious... what kind of trouble are you guys planning on getting into..."

Accuse her of following you and tell her to stop.

Touch her glass with yours and say "Cheers..."

Every time you leave you build up the sense of anticipation and challenge. And women love it.

POSITION YOURSELF

There's always a place at the bar where everyone goes up to get a drink... wher everyone gathers and tries to get the bartender's attention. If you can grab a bar stool that's right next to that place, it can be FANTASTIC... because all night long you'll have women bumping into you, etc. You'll have tons of "ready made" opportunities to talk to women.

Or grab a spot next to a walkway. When girls walk by, you'll have a change to stick out your glass and clink, challenge her to a thumb war, or bust on her.

FISHING VS. HUNTING

It helps here to think of this as "fishing" more than "hunting.

Regular guys go hunting for women. Naturals go fishing.

Hunting means you have a motive. Women pick up on this and will see you as being too hungry, desperate, needy, and "trying to hard."

If she can tell that you CARE whether she is into you or not, she will INSTANTLY disqualify you... even if you are doing everything else right. If you put too much importance into the interaction, you'll also have a tendency to think too much and screw it up.

On the other hand, if you are relaxed and just out to have a good time and make some new friends, women will be naturally drawn to your laid-back attitude.

Be a fisherman, not a hunter. Less effort will give you more results.

By David DeAngelo

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman
Don Diebel - How To Talk To Single Women When On A Date

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5 Types Of Dating Tips For Men

In searching for any good dating advice, most of you might be expecting some do’s and don’ts or come across at some articles or videos of David DeAngelo or Neil Strauss. Surely they can be a lot of help. Knowing the basics of dating will help you get through it successfully and will have a better chance of having a second date with the same person. Though some men may need other kinds of dating advice. If you are not sure what type of advice you need, you may check on the following:

1. Beginners. These are the types of advice that are suited for beginners like the one mentioned above, the basic do’s and dont’s of dating. Like who gets to pay the bill, where to take your date, and the likes.

2. If you think you’re not a guy whom girls would likely to throw their attention at first sight, then you should check those dating tips for guys on how to improve yourself. Examples of this is how to improve your scent, to be clean or tidy looking, etc.

3. If you want to learn how other guys, especially the pickup artist, can sleep with girls on their first date, then you should be looking for seduction tips. Though these kinds of advice are more advanced.

4. Relationship advice. Some men are seeking a more serious advice and not just about dating some girls. They are looking for advice about winning a woman’s heart.

5. Understanding women. Though you will not really search for advice on how to understand women, you may still find some stuff about them. Sometimes, or maybe most of the times, it helps to know how women thinks. An interesting example of this is Julian Foxx’s explanation on how the women’s menstrual cycle affects their preference of men.

If you are really serious on improving yourself and developing some dating skills, then finding some tips may not be enough. Try attending some trainings and bootcamps. You’ll be more exposed on how things really work in the dating community. Learn from the experts.

Suggested reading (free books):

C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report
Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women

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An Introduction To The Art Of Seduction

The art of seduction is the art of getting what you want without fighting. In other words, in a successful seduction, the seducer gets everything he or she wants from the 'victim' willingly, to the point where the 'victim' goes out of their way to help the seducer get what he/she wants.

Of course, I am putting the word 'victim' in quotes because although the skillful seducer gets everything desired, the 'victim' doesn't necessarily feel victimized. In fact, in a good successful seduction, the victim never feels pressure but gives out of their own desire to please the seducer.

One somewhat unknown fact about seduction is that it's something created by women. Yes, the Don Juan's of the world are known as the great 'Seducers' but they did not create the art of seduction.

As explained in "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Green, in past times it was more common for men to be merciless and as a result women became almost helpless. Yes, she could entice a man but once a man gets sex she loses her power. This was overcome by women such as "Bathsheba, from the Old Testament; Helen of Troy; the Chinese siren Hso Shi; and the greatest of them all Cleopatra", who created seduction as a way to gain power.

In Cleopatra's case, after she was thrown out by the pharaoh (her brother/husband, as was the tradition there, then) she showed up at a meeting of another conqueror rolled up in a rug. When the rug was unrolled she stood up in stunning cloths and makeup. Everyone was speechless. That night Julius Caesar became her lover.

Cleopatra continued to dazzle Julius Caesar with sensual and visual delights, becoming the male fantasy figure that is an underlying part of all male psychology (more about that later). In other words, having sex with her wasn't enough, she created a desire to possess her. And when Caesar was most seeking her attention, she would withdraw and leave him wondering what he did wrong. Then he would strive to make things better thereby becoming more her slave everyday. She did reclaim her throne.

In the 17th century men appropriated women's techniques of appearance, style and dramatics and combined it with "soft words", which are a weak spot for women, to overcome their resistance to sex. This was an age when women had more freedom and choice. Many of these seducers were Spaniards from which the Don Juan legend sprung.

In our times women are treated less like property, giving them a sexual and political freedom that they haven't had in an average of 4000 years (2000 yrs in Europe and 6000 yrs in the middle east -approx- matriarchies dominated before then). So of course previous tactics of getting a women, such as arranged marriages and as part of business or political deals has ceased to work. (At least, in the west).

This means that now more than ever, seduction has become a key method of gaining power, both sexual or social.

Can seduction skills help anyone? Yes. If you are not good looking, it simply doesn't matter. You can still seduce successfully. Cleopatra was plain looking but her use of make up made her extraordinary, by being able to capture the male fantasy figure in her persona; which is nothing new, women know this today just as Neanderthal women knew about it in their time, and there is even evidence that the Neanderthals mined for red ochre to use as lipstick (yeah, that they were 'savages' may be a myth...the tradition of burying the dead and the domestication of the dog can also be traced to Neanderthals - for more read, Primitive Mythology By Joseph Campbell).

Gabriele D'Annunzio, was a journalist in the 1880's in Roman society, who was so ugly that men didn't care if he talked with their wives. But when he talked to women, some said it was like church bells, other said it was hypnotic, and still others claimed he would transform into the God Apollo. He knew just how to flatter a woman, suggesting sex and romance without necessarily doing anything, making their hearts flutter. He married the daughter of a Duchess and continued to grow is social and literary stature through the help of powerful women.

For women, for whom marriage was like slavery, found excitement and pleasure in the idea of a man who was totally absorbed in them and with whom they could let go of the huge social role of civility, commitment and loyalty that she is expected to maintain in society. At a lecture I attended, I actually heard a successful 'intellectual' claim, with complete assurance, that "chastity is a woman's greatest virtue", which underlines the role she is expected to play.

The seducer offers her a break from conventional reality and she is a willing victim. Just as a man is when faced with a 'Marilyn Monroe' like persona, who stimulates him in a way that is very powerful and effective.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Tp - An Introduction To Slow Seduction A Special Report
Major Mark Cunningham - An Introduction To Stage Hypnosis Compact Edition

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Mental State

This concept is a little bit complicated. Anyway, if I tell you that once you have learnedthis concept, you will have huge possibilities for bringing women to bed, will you go forit? I knew it: you go for it. Good.During the day, without even noticing it, all the time we go through differentmental states. We wake up in the morning and we are happy. We go to our workplace,something goes wrong and we feel irritated.Maybe later we receive some pleasant news and we are back again to the happymental state. These changes happen very, very rapidly without our paying attention tothem.We just feel them.Now the important thing is: the mental state we are in at any given moment has usseeing the world in a very, very different way, depending on which state we are in at thatmoment.Let's now apply this to seduction.

Let's go now to a list of some very importantconcepts:
- “No one can interact in a positive way with another person if he or she is not in apositive mental state.”
- “Mental states are contagious. If I am irritated, I cause irritation. If I am happy, Icause happiness.”
- “We can influence our mental state and put ourselves in the desired mental state.

We can also influence other people’s mental states and have them in the mentalstate we want.”This means that before you interact with a woman for the purpose of seducing her,you need to ask yourself: “Am I in the right mental state?”

If you feel that you are not in the right mental state, then it is better to try to putyourself in the desired state before you do anything.This does not go against the rule of the fast approach because WHEN you are in thecorrect state that is the right moment to begin on approaches.If you are not in the right mental state, however, you can use techniques to attain it.This is done using Anchors.

An “Anchor” is whatever person, place, thing, music or whatever thing/event whichbrings to mind the desired mental state.Some examples: if in the town there is a waiter who is a great guy and you have funtalking with him and whose name is Mark then he is an “Anchor” for a fun state whentalking.If you go out for a pickup session to seduce women, first go to the bar where Markis. Have a chat with him.

Chances are that talking with him your mental state will become happy andrelaxed. When you are in that state you telegraph to others happiness and relaxation andyou are: seductive!If listening to a certain kind of music puts you into the desiderated state, then listento that music before you go to approach women.Train yourself to recognize situations, places, people, things recalling for youpositive mental states and to put yourself into that state before you interact with thewomen you want to seduce.

Train yourself to observe your own states.Realize that when in the proper state, you are likely to come across as veryseductive and when in the wrong state you are likely to come across as boring.Calibrating a woman's own states is an advanced skill and I will teach it to you inthe upcoming books of the Encyclopedia of Pickup, Seduction and Female Relationshipsfor the modern man.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Ken Lingu - Sensual Massage
Michael Hall - Meta States Model

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Who Is Vin Dicarlo

Vin DiCarlo is the world's premier dating coach and trainer of professional pick-up artists. His provocative, controversial and chillingly effective methods cut directly to the core of social interactions between men and women. He draws on his scientific and analytical background and combines it with his vast real-life experience with women in order to transform his clients, enriching and motivating men across the globe.

Vin's teachings are based in reality and observation rather than sugar coated theories that merely stroke the ego. Always developing and evolving, Vin is both a consummate professional and an eternal student of the game, drawing upon his infinite knowledge of learning theory, neurofeedback, motivational psychology and neuro-linguistic programming striving to produce easier, faster, more powerful results for every one of his clients.

Vin takes you by the hand and guides you along through all of your social endeavors, whether you are looking to meet many, many more women, find a highly compatible girlfriend or make a living as a full-time professional pick-up artist.

If you are looking for lines, gimmicks and simple routines, look elsewhere. Vin delivers hard-hitting ideas that integrate into your subconscious behaviors and personality, producing rapid and permanent change that manifests itself in all areas of your social life.

Vin also provides exclusive and confidential one-on-one training for affluent clients such as lawyers, doctors and high-profile business executives.
What are his teachings about?

Vin's main objective is to both endow you with the necessary skills for interacting with women but to also help you cultivate a magnetically attractive personality that touches others in a powerful, yet natural way:

1. Have supreme choice of beautiful, intelligent women. Spend your time with someone you truly enjoy and cherish.
2. Taking complete control of your relationships. Start meaningful relationships on your terms.
3. Use a completely natural approach, with absolutely no lying, manipulation, or cheesy routines that will get you accused of trying to "pick-up".
4. Express your inherent personality. You should NOT have to become someone else in order to make Vin's method work.
5. Powerful transformation can be EASY. The quickest way between two points is a straight line. You will not have to do magic tricks, memorize elaborate stories, go out with big groups of women or buy expensive bottle service, an average guy can use Vin's method using nothing more than just his words.
6. Cultivate valuable friendships and connections with people to foster refreshing new social circles.
7. Learn powerful and effective social techniques and abilities that will help you in business, networking and negotiations. Skills for LIFE.

Why Vin DiCarlo?

Vin DiCarlo is one of the highest paid, most in-demand dating consultants in America today. In the last few years, he has worked hands-on with clients from 32 different countries at fees starting at $12,000 for a one-on-one three day weekend.

Vin's methods transfer easily from one to another.

That simply means: Any man, young or old, rich or poor, no matter what skill level, benefits from Vin's teachings.

Vin is a prolific writer, and is known for some of the most widely read and reproduced articles. As the first professional pick-up trainer working successfully on the East coast, Vin is the pioneer of natural game which has been proven to be the most effective and imitated style today.

Vin is one of the only teachers in this industry who is acknowledged by well known and respected academic institutions. Just last year, Vin was invited to the very prestigious Syracuse University to give a talk on attraction and cognition as it relates to dating in modern society.

Most importantly: Vin is both a master pick-up artist and dating coach, who actively, currently lives what he teaches and practices what he preaches. Too many gurus rely on clever marketing or outlandish and flashy techniques. Vin is the real deal.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Dr Peter Davies - Hopes And Fears
Dh Lawrence - Women In Love

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