Sunday, February 11, 2007

Who Is Vin Dicarlo

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Vin DiCarlo is the world's premier dating coach and trainer of professional pick-up artists. His provocative, controversial and chillingly effective methods cut directly to the core of social interactions between men and women. He draws on his scientific and analytical background and combines it with his vast real-life experience with women in order to transform his clients, enriching and motivating men across the globe.

Vin's teachings are based in reality and observation rather than sugar coated theories that merely stroke the ego. Always developing and evolving, Vin is both a consummate professional and an eternal student of the game, drawing upon his infinite knowledge of learning theory, neurofeedback, motivational psychology and neuro-linguistic programming striving to produce easier, faster, more powerful results for every one of his clients.

Vin takes you by the hand and guides you along through all of your social endeavors, whether you are looking to meet many, many more women, find a highly compatible girlfriend or make a living as a full-time professional pick-up artist.

If you are looking for lines, gimmicks and simple routines, look elsewhere. Vin delivers hard-hitting ideas that integrate into your subconscious behaviors and personality, producing rapid and permanent change that manifests itself in all areas of your social life.

Vin also provides exclusive and confidential one-on-one training for affluent clients such as lawyers, doctors and high-profile business executives.
What are his teachings about?

Vin's main objective is to both endow you with the necessary skills for interacting with women but to also help you cultivate a magnetically attractive personality that touches others in a powerful, yet natural way:

1. Have supreme choice of beautiful, intelligent women. Spend your time with someone you truly enjoy and cherish.
2. Taking complete control of your relationships. Start meaningful relationships on your terms.
3. Use a completely natural approach, with absolutely no lying, manipulation, or cheesy routines that will get you accused of trying to "pick-up".
4. Express your inherent personality. You should NOT have to become someone else in order to make Vin's method work.
5. Powerful transformation can be EASY. The quickest way between two points is a straight line. You will not have to do magic tricks, memorize elaborate stories, go out with big groups of women or buy expensive bottle service, an average guy can use Vin's method using nothing more than just his words.
6. Cultivate valuable friendships and connections with people to foster refreshing new social circles.
7. Learn powerful and effective social techniques and abilities that will help you in business, networking and negotiations. Skills for LIFE.

Why Vin DiCarlo?

Vin DiCarlo is one of the highest paid, most in-demand dating consultants in America today. In the last few years, he has worked hands-on with clients from 32 different countries at fees starting at $12,000 for a one-on-one three day weekend.

Vin's methods transfer easily from one to another.

That simply means: Any man, young or old, rich or poor, no matter what skill level, benefits from Vin's teachings.

Vin is a prolific writer, and is known for some of the most widely read and reproduced articles. As the first professional pick-up trainer working successfully on the East coast, Vin is the pioneer of natural game which has been proven to be the most effective and imitated style today.

Vin is one of the only teachers in this industry who is acknowledged by well known and respected academic institutions. Just last year, Vin was invited to the very prestigious Syracuse University to give a talk on attraction and cognition as it relates to dating in modern society.

Most importantly: Vin is both a master pick-up artist and dating coach, who actively, currently lives what he teaches and practices what he preaches. Too many gurus rely on clever marketing or outlandish and flashy techniques. Vin is the real deal.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Dr Peter Davies - Hopes And Fears
Dh Lawrence - Women In Love

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Monday, January 1, 2007

Making Her Salivate For You

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Ivan Pavlov was a physiologist who stumbled upon one of the most important principles in all of psychology. Pavlov discovered that he could teach dogs to salivate at the sound of a tone if he repeatedly paired the tone with the presentation of food. The dogs learned that the tone was a good predictor for food (which they liked and which naturally elicited a salivary response). Thus, by repeatedly pairing the tone and the food, the dogs learned to salivate to the sound of the tone... regardless of whether or not food was present. This is known as classical conditioning and it's quite an omnipresent phenomenon which influences most every aspect of our lives... especially our love lives. You see, EMOTIONS are particularly susceptible to classical conditioning. Emotions are very often "elicited" by certain circumstances as a result of past learning experiences (that is, previous pairings or associations). An obvious example is the emotion of fear.

People often learn to fear things because of previous unpleasant associations. For example, a person may come to fear dentists (or perhaps the sound of a drill) because of past painful dental procedures. A woman who has been attacked may develop a fear of strangers or a fear of men. Or maybe it's the garage or neighborhood in which she was attacked that come to elicit feelings of fear and anxiety. It's a simple pairing of a particular situation (or person) with an emotion which causes similar situations (or persons) to elicit similar emotions in the future. On the positive side, think about an old girlfriend of yours that you adored. (Everybody has at least one that they blew it with.) You were crazy about this girl and would have done anything for her. As a result you may have done a few things you didn't really care too much for. Maybe she was really into Italian food but you weren't. Frequently you wound up in Italian restaurants in order to keep her happy. As a result of the pairing of Italian food with this adorable lady, you NOW love Italian food. Or maybe it's a particular Italian restaurant that you two frequented that you NOW love.

Perhaps she used to love hiking so now you do. Or she was crazy about cats and now you have several. Or maybe it was a particular movie that the two of you saw together that still makes you feel queasy. Or a particular song (your song) that brings back a flood of vivid memories and intense emotions. Whatever. Your feelings for her were transferred to various other objects, situations, or people as a result of being paired with her. It's really fascinating to observe this pairing of situations and emotions. Try to pay attention to the "classical conditioning" happening around you as you go about your daily routine. It occurs ALL THE TIME. And it's really quite interesting. Now that we grasp the basics of classical conditioning, the question becomes, "How can we use classical conditioning to help us in our relationships with women?"

We could probably write an entire book on classical conditioning and how it influences our love lives, our relationships, and our emotions. But I'm just going to point out one or two things to you right now and leave you to discover some of the other *secrets* yourself. Let's assume that the object of your affection (your girlfriend, or maybe a beauty you're attracted to) is always in either a good mood, neutral mood, or bad mood. That is, she's either experiencing good emotions, neutral emotions, or bad emotions. Our goal is simply to associate ourselves with her good emotions and dissociate ourselves from her bad emotions. In this way, we can MAKE OURSELVES into a type of infectious, charismatic individual who elicits positive emotions and positive feelings... simply by showing up. And that's what you want, isn't it? You want her to be excited and happy and feel good when you come around. You want her to look forward to seeing you because she knows that she's going to feel great. Isn't that how your lady (or the lady you desire) makes you feel - happy, excited, positive? And you definitely don't want your presence to elicit feelings of depression, anger, or anxiety.

It's pretty simple. The major point here to remember is that you want to be around her when she's in a good mood and avoid her, like the plague, when she's in a bad mood. Nothing earth-shaking here. Yet it's amazing how guys can screw this up. Sometimes putting themselves through a great deal of extra effort in order to do so. If the beauty at your office is in a bad mood (she's got a plumbing problem), then you should spend as little time with her as possible that day. If that cute little blond in your history class is feeling exhausted (up all night studying), then this is not a good time to ask her to lunch. If your girlfriend has a mean case of PMS, stay away from her until she's in a more agreeable mood. By avoiding her when she's feeling bad, you're not pairing yourself with her negative emotional states... and conditioning yourself to be a "negative emotion generator." Now if she's in a good or great mood, then you should maximize your time together. This should be obvious. And my guess is that you probably WANT to be around her when she's feeling good anyway. So do it. And even if you can't spend that much time with her when she's feeling good, then you'd like to at least get her thinking about you.

Call her on the phone. Send her a quick email. Accidentally bump into her in the break room. Tell her a joke - jokes tend to linger in the mind. Whatever. Use your imagination. (As far as neutral moods go, you goal is to change those into happy, exciting moods and associate yourself with these moods... but that's a subject to be covered in the future.) However, as mentioned, many guys screw this up. If their girlfriend (or potential girlfriend) is in a bad mood, they may try to make her feel better. They drop by her place with food and ice cream - to cheer her up. They insist on taking her out to lunch or dinner - brighten her day a little. They try to make her laugh. They do her favors. They spend hours on the phone sympathizing with her. They hang and hang and hang around. They do everything BUT what they should do... stay away. Dissociate. Now this budding Don Juan usually THINKS that his girlfriend (or potential love object) being down or in a bad mood is an opportunity for him to make a few points. That by doing his best to make her feel better that she's, of course, going to realize what a great guy he is... and maybe fall for him. It's possible.

Anything's possible. But I wouldn't bet on it. All you're really doing is exerting extra effort to pair yourself with her negative emotional states. Yes, you might make her feel a little better, but you're most likely doing more damage to your "charisma" than good. Keep things simple. Just stay away. And if you're a sensitive guy who feels bad because she feels bad... well, remember that people often LIKE to feel down sometimes. People often LIKE getting upset and venting. Somehow it helps them to keep their lives in balance. Give her the freedom to feel bad if she wants. On the other hand, if she's been emotionally DEVASTATED that's a different situation. Maybe her best friend died. Maybe her new car got totaled. Maybe her cat was run over. Whatever - it varies from girl to girl. If she's your girlfriend (or significant other), she's going to EXPECT you to be there for her emotionally.

She's going to want to lean on you and draw strength from you. She's going to want to emotionally vent to you. And if you're not there for her, she's going to "hate" you for it. However, if she's been devastated and she's NOT your girlfriend (just someone that you'd like to be), then it's probably best to stay away until she's feeling better. As mentioned, classical conditioning is happening constantly and I can't possibly go into all of the related scenarios, but I'll briefly mention one other instance... that of "good" and "bad" news. Yes, delivering bad news does rub off on to the person unfortunate enough to deliver it. It's one of the most potent cases of classical conditioning. She's feeling good. You arrive and deliver the bad news. She's now feeling bad. Not exactly what you should aspire to. Never deliver bad news to a girl you're attracted to. Get someone else to do it. Bribe someone if you have to. Just make sure you're someplace else. Now as far as delivering good news... Ooooh Yeeaah!!

Suggested reading (free books):

Michael Hall - Dealing With The Downside Of Nlp
William Robinson - Woman Her Sex And Love Life

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Sunday, December 24, 2006

Be A Man And Take Control

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A few weeks ago Michael Stoute and myself did a Podcast titled "The Lost Art of Being a Man." The podcast was all about going back to basics and being more of a man to not only help you in attracted women, but to help you in life. I got a lot of questions regarding more examples so I thougth this might help!

Its very interesting to see how much girls expect us to take initiative. Just watch them in clubs when they stand in circles with friends and pretend to have fun, waiting for something to happen.

In reality, they are there waiting for someone to approach them and sweep them off their feet. Its what they dream of. You need to change your beliefs,about girls playing an active role when it comes to seduction and sex. The less you expect from her, and the less she has to do in seduction process, the stronger your game will be. You will be much more successful when you take control. Girls adore guys who take control of the interaction and the relationship.

Let me explain exactly what you need to do to become like this:

1. Never ask for permission when you decide to do something, ie, Would you like to dance? Would you like to sit over there?, etc.
2. When you are in a situation with a girl where a decision needs to be made, take the lead and decide for her. Example: You are not sure if you want to go to dinner or movie. Pick one. Dont ask her which she wants to do or what restaurant she likes. She wants to follow your lead. She wants you to be the man in the relationship.
3. When she is uncomfortable in a situation, take control and make the changes required to make her feel comfortable. Example: You are making out with her, but you can feel that the people around are making her feel uncomfortable. Take the lead and move her to place where she feels more discreet.

Another example: You are picking her up in a bar and you stand and talk for 45 minutes. Everything is going good, but if you do a quick body scan and notice she is wearing high heels. Trust me, it hurts to stand for three hours in those shoes but you will rarely hear that from a girl. Say, Hey lets go sit down there... Itll be more comfortable. You will rarely hear a woman make that suggestion. Thats your job.

You need to pay attention to how she feels all the time. Dont ask her because you will get the wrong answers. Instead, keep checking her body language and try to sense how she feels. Get good at reading womens subcommunications. Watch, listen and be aware.

Every so often ask yourself, Does she feels okay right now with me? What I can do to make her feel even more relaxed and comfortable?" It will pay dividends.

When I say be a leader, thats exactly what I mean. Pay attention to the people around you, lead them and make them feel the best in every situation possible. If you see it hurts her to stand in high heels, dont ask " Would you like to sit down?" because she will p robably say no because her friends are over here, she doesnt want to seem like shes being picked up, or some other reason. Instead say, Lets go over there and sit down. She will follow because its simpler to follow than to decide and she REALLY wants to sit down. You havent forced her to make a decision and by taking a little initiative, youve isolated the girl from her group to a better seduction location.

Using the same principle Its 2 AM, and of course after clubbing everyone is hungry. All you need to say is, Hey, Im hungry, lets get some food. You can keep me a company, and you are halfway home. If you ask her, Would you like to get something to eat, she will think of a million reasons why she shouldnt. Take the lead!

If you develop emotional intelligence, recognize how she feels, and have the courage to be a man who takes initiative, you will become the man that that those girls are standing around waiting to meet. When you take control of all your interactions, your results will improve dramatically.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Tranceboy - The Lazy Mans Guide To Seduction
Tyler Durden - Plant And Stare Opener

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Tuesday, December 12, 2006

A Great Idea For Improving Self Confidence

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A great idea for improving self confidence is to learn how to celebrate your achievements in life. It’s often easier to dwell on the things you can’t do, or the mistakes you have made, but the reality is that there are things that you will be able to do better than most people, and even one or two things at which you will excel.

Have a think about the things you do well and give yourself credit for them. For instance, think about the skills you need to do your job- chances are you are able to complete tasks which others would feel unable to attempt. If you are a stay at home mom, think of all the skills needed to raise happy healthy children. Think about all the things others come to you for- are you able to fix cars better than any mechanic? Do you bake the best cakes? Are you the one your friends always turn to when they need relationship advice or a shoulder to cry on? These are all achievements and should be celebrated as such.

If you are finding it difficult to think of anything you are good at, try asking other people- you may be surprised at the answers! We often overlook our own strengths and fall into the trap of thinking we have nothing of value to offer. One good way to celebrate achievement is to write your own Achievement Inventory- get a good quality notebook and write down everything you have achieved so far during the course of your life. Chances are you have achieved far more than you realize. Don’t think you can only write major life successes- think of all the skills you use as a part of your job, or the little things you have done which have made a difference. These could be anything from helping a friend out in their hour of need to raising money for your favorite charity. Write down all the things you are proud of, no matter how small. Once you start writing, you should feel inspired- read through your Achievement Inventory regularly to give yourself a boost- and don’t forget to keep adding to it!

You could expand on this by writing another list- this time, write down all the things you would like to try, and make a commitment to yourself to go ahead and try them! Be as creative or adventurous as you like- write a novel, learn to paint, climb a mountain or read a book which has been recommended to you. If you prefer, start off with something relatively easy and move on to greater challenges, but make sure you enjoy each activity- if you find you are not enjoying it then move onto something else. Each new achievement will boost your confidence levels and should be added to your Achievement Inventory. As well as improving self confidence levels, you could find a whole new passion and talent in your life or even a new career!

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Dr Robert Antony - Total Self Confidence
Carlos Xuma - Supreme Self Confidence

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Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Find Out About Her Values And Give Her What She Wants

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This part can be put in practice during the whole seduction process from the beginningor later, depending on the situation. It is used as a method for collecting importantinformation about the woman with the purpose of getting to know better how to seduceher.As we have already seen, it can be also used as a way to feed her back her valuesand what is important to her and increase the effectiveness of your seduction.If used well and in the correct way, it helps seduction. If used in the wrong way, itacts against you.The correct way to use this technique is to use it so that the woman does not noticewhat you are doing.Another important thing is: if you use this technique but don’t behave in an Alphaway and don't create attraction, the seduction will not succeed regardless of what you do.In your company she will feel as though she is with a girlfriend. So don’t lean onthis technique as your only mean to seduce.This technique is extremely useful for detecting women in whom it is not worthinvesting your time. By using this technique you can understand in advance who thewomen with psychological problems are.You can in this way also discover which are the women who are likely to give youtrouble in some other way. This will enable you to remove them rapidly from your game.You use this also to collect information about:- Her past.- Her family environment.- Her father and mother.Information about her father is very important for knowing how to seduce her. Thiswill be covered in the upcoming books of the Encyclopedia of Pickup, Seduction andFemale Relationships for the modern man.- Her friends, relatives.- Her past relationships with men: very important information for knowing how toseduce her.Used together with the other techniques - so that the woman does not notice it -this is an extremely effective seduction technique.The technique consists of two phases:

1. Trying to understand the woman's values: Finding out about her values.

2. Making her feel that she is in the company of the man with whom she can realizethose values: Giving her what she wants.

Now let's see how it is done:

Finding out about her values: we will return to this subject in a different chapterbecause it is very important.Here I shall describe this technique only briefly.Practically speaking in both the small talk phase and in the rapport phase you talkwith her in a discrete way also for the purpose of collecting information about her: thepeople and the activities she likes and particularly the type of man she likes. Functional values are the things, the events and the people she likes and Innervalues are the sensations and feelings she feels when she is in the company of the things,the events and the people she likes.Practically speaking by using this technique you obtain information about themental state she likes to be in. It is very important to collect information about thesensations and the mental state she likes to have when she is in the company of a man.Finding out about her values is a technique directed first at knowing about thethings she likes (functional values) and then which are the sensations and the feelingsshe feels when she is in the company of the things, events and people she likes (innervalues.) This will be described in more detail in another chapter.

But now, let's have a lookat the following example:

He: “You have a dog, don’t you?”
She: “Yes, how did you know?”
He: “So you like animals”
She: “Yes I adore animals” (this is a functional value.
She likes animals.)
He: “What’s your dog’s name?”
She: “His name is Rolf.”
He: “Nice name. So you have fun with Rolf.”
She: “Yes. What a sensation of sweetness and warmth when I am with him!”

(Those are inner values: the sensations of sweetness and warmth she feels withRolf.) Attention! As I said, finding out about her values has to be done so that she doesnot understand what you are doing. If she understands that you are collecting information for the purpose of getting her into bed, you will get the opposite effect.If you ask too many direct questions, you come out as being pushy and get a verynegative reaction.

Even worse, if you give her the impression that you are asking abouther feelings and mental states in order to please her, you put yourself in the subservientframe; she classifies you as a beta and non-confident and treats you like a girlfriend.Giving her what she wants: after a while the seducer and the woman go on talkingabout other subjects. The seducer starts to use the information obtained when he foundout about her values for seductive purposes:

He: “Strange. This evening I feel different.”
She: “How do you feel this evening?”
He: “Maybe it is this sense of connection we feel here. There is a strange sense ofsweetness I have not felt for long time.”
She: “Yes. Tell me.”He: “I don't know. The sweetness of this evening in the town makes me feel good.There is so much passion and warmth in the way you live. It is like we are having anincredible connection.”

He just gave her what she wanted: making her experience those feelings with him.Remember that NLP has demonstrated how words feed the brain with feelings andsensations. By describing a pink elephant or a panther we have people "seeing" and "feeling" a pink elephant or a panther.He has her feeling the feelings she considers as pleasurable for her!And has her link those feelings to his presence!Now that is for a woman a much more valuable experience than for a man!At this point the game is done. He lightly touches her hand and if she does notresist he takes her hand in his own. We are ready for the close.Of course, this is only a simple example. In reality it is not that simple, but withpractice you will become an artist and learn to perform all the infinite possible variationsof the above.

Suggested reading (free books):

Robert Anue - Forbidden Pattern The Shadow And The Rising Sun
Ken Lingu - How To Give Her A Head Massage

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Sunday, November 19, 2006

How Asian Singles And Personals Date Online

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Asia is the biggest continent of this planet in terms of population but still it is difficult to find right people to marry here. Men and women face difficulties in finding their life partners in their localities. Online dating sites are providing services to such men and women for many years now and there are free and paid dating sites. Asian singles are dating online through these sites and are getting their life partners. The number of people who join online singles dating services in Asia is increasing every month which indicates the popularity of online dating sites. The singles dating websites have an advantage, users are sure that anyone they will contact will be single and will be looking for a single as they are.

Free online dating sites are much more popular in Asia as these do not charge any fee to join but some functions on the sites are limited and require premium membership to have access to those functionalities. Some sites provide free access for sometime so that users take overview of the site and then these sites place membership for further use. The growing interest of Asian singles and personals in online dating services is amazing and the services are providing results in finding people of their perfect matches.

Life is so busy in 21st century and people do not find time to go out and date. Online dating sites are useful in this way and singles can talk via these sites 24 hours, even they are on job or travelling. Online dating websites have brought ease to people. Users just have to register their profile to have access to these sites. It is advised to users by site to upload pictures and some profiles do not get activated unless a picture is uploaded on them. This helps in attracting more people and in increasing profile views. The more people view your profile; more will be the chances of making a match.

The picture on display of your profile does wonders and it makes sense too. Only people liking your profile picture will contact you and you are rest assured that chances of rejection will be low. A lot of online dating sites in Asia provide access to members who have joined lately and their profile pictures are being displayed on the home page. You do not have to go through all the profiles to look for new ones.

There are so many websites available to date online and selecting one which is appropriate for you will not be easy. You should shortlist the things you want in a site and then try searching for Asian online dating services. You should ask for the latest pictures from the contact you are interested in. Only reveal your personal information to singles that you want to contact and they too should have an interest in you. There will be thousands of Asian single men and women waiting for you when you are in an online dating site and chances of finding your perfect partner are very bright.

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Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Hw Long - Sane Sex Life And Sane Sex Living
John Alanis - Online Personals Copywriting

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Monday, October 2, 2006

Art Of Flirting

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Flirting is an important social skill. It can be used to display interest. It can be used to judge another person's level of interest. It can be used to attract interest from others. In many ways, everything you do or say in the dating and attraction process is a form of flirting.

Skilful flirters make it look effortless. They blur the line between social butterfly and sexual being. Their confidence makes them alluring, their bravery makes them intriguing and their sexuality makes them intoxicating. They're never afraid of attracting the type of attention they want.

Great flirts speak and act in ways that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the amount of time they've know the person they're flirting with, without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. They walk a fine line, but land lots of dates by doing so.

The more attraction skills you master, the more effective flirt you'll be. Attraction All-Stars has included the most effective of those skills below. So stop waiting on the sidelines and start using your personality, body language and conversation skills to flirt with other singles.

Attitude

The best flirts are risk-takers with unshakable confidence. They have an 'I don't care what you think of me because I know I'm awesome' attitude. They expect to win over everyone they meet. Because of this attitude, flirts have powerful body language, are able to break through people's touch barriers quicker and are able to show a larger range of their personality through conversation.

Flirting goals

Know the purpose of your flirting. Are you just trying to win over the crowd? Are you trying to gage the interest of the handsome doctor? Are you trying to show the stunning lawyer you're interested in her? If you're going to flirt, have a purpose in mind. Knowing your goal can help ensure you don't step over the line of appropriate social behavior.

Time and Place

There is a time and place for everything... and flirting is no different. Flirting is carefully balancing on the line of appropriate social behavior. A step over that line can quickly take you from flirt to floozy. It can turn respect to disrespect. It can turn a comfortable situation uncomfortable. Read verbal and non-verbal signals and understand your environment to ensure you don't step over the line.

Be a sexual being

We are all sexual creatures. It's important people see you as one. Flirting helps ensure you don't land in the 'let's just be friends zone' later. If you try to appear non-sexual to avoid being seen as a threat, you're not going to be seen as potential dating material either. Have singles see you in a sexy, playful and flirtatious way.

Build sexual tension

Talk to, tease and titillate their sexual inhibitions. It is important singles see you as a potential sexual partner without either of you talking about sex. Sexual tension is heightened through flirtatious touch, voice tone, eye contact, facial expressions and body language. Done properly, it can fill a non-sexual conversation with sexual overtones.

NON-VERBAL FLIRTING

Proper Posture

Your posture will tell people if you're willing to be approached. It will inform them of your comfort level around them. It will show them which conversation topics to follow or abandon. All great flirts have powerful posture (chin up, shoulders pulled back, chest out, back straight, feet firmly planted on the ground). They also keep their posture open.

If someone is uncomfortable with another person they will close their posture. This is done by crossing their arms or holding a drink in front of their chest. To show comfort, flirts always keep their hands at their sides, tucked behind their back or on the person of interest. Flirts know by doing this, they send subliminal signals of interest. An open posture sends all the right signals without saying a single word.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

David Jones - The Art Of Internet Dating
Kate Fox - Guide To Flirting

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