I've tried probably 50 different types of 'lines' and techniques for meeting women, and I've found that the simple ones work the best.
"Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER."
If I'm in an environment that has a lot of people, and I'm with a friend, I like to start by asking a woman for her 'opinion' on something. Here's how it happens... first of all, I keep my eyes open for current affairs and interesting trivia that involves gender differences and tension. This makes for amazing conversation openers with hot, intelligent women.
My latest favorite: "Hey, let me ask you a question. My friend and I were talking about something, and I think we need a female perspective..." (This is a killer, by the way. It's taken me a long time to figure this one out... but it kicks ass). Then I say, "I was just looking on the Internet... and did you know that the average woman in America is 5' 4", weighs 150 pounds, and wears a size 14?"
I LOVE THIS ONE!
They usually grab the ball and take off into the conversation with just that question.
Others include, "Do you think that men understand what women really want and need?" and "What do you think of this new trend of women wanting to pay their own way... and the Charlie's Angel's theme song that sings about it as almost a stuck up thing to do?"
You with me here? After starting a conversation, get into Mr. Cocky and Funny mode, and you'll do some good work.
If I'm alone, and the woman is alone or with friends, I usually start with a compliment opener... depending on the situation.
And I always try to tie it into the situation, so it doesn't sound canned. Women that I run into can smell canned openers... I think that they're getting popular again or something... because women can sense them like a dog sensing kitties.
I might say, "Excuse me...
What I've realized is... if you're going to approach a woman, what you say doesn't much matter as much as HOW you say it (remember the character thing?).
So keep a serious look on your face (no big cheesy smiles) as this approach creates the feeling that you're not overly excited. Then speak with a slow, mysterious confidence.
I've met many men who have big problems getting past the idea of walking up to women who they don't know and starting a conversation. In fact, I had a huge issue too when I started learning about how to deal with women. My best advice is to just go for it and keep doing it until you finally get over it.
One guy I know went to a mall one day and walked up to every woman he saw to get over his fear. He said that he felt sick in the beginning, but the fear eventually went away. And then he did it again another day, and the fear went away a little faster. And now he can walk up to any woman anywhere and start talking. Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER. So don't give away any of your power. Keep your power for you.
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